教你如何發起談話—男孩對女孩篇
1. 尋求意見
1) 聊聊男女關係：
"I need a girl's opinion about something I was just discussing with a friend who broke up with his girlfriend. He made out with another woman straight after his relationship break up. Is he a jerk?"
"I want a woman's perspective on this. I was just talking a friend who had broken up and his girlfriend keeps calling. Why does she do it?"
女人們總是樂於分享自己對於男女關係問題的看法，因此這類問題是向女孩發起談話的好工具。
2) 問些爭議話題：
"Who lies more: men or women?"
"Is it wrong to break up with a text message?"
如果你向一羣女人拋出這樣的容易引起爭議的話題，那你就可以等着看她們兩眼放光、嘰嘰喳喳沒完沒了了。
2. 玩笑調侃
1) 適當運用搭訕語：
"I play the field, and it looks like I just hit a home run with you."
（順便來學兩個習語：play the field意爲“跟很多人交往，與很多人發生感情關係”；home run是全壘打的意思，引申爲大獲全勝，hit a home run就是說“做某事非常成功”。）
"You're like a dictionary, you add meaning to my life!"
"Do you have a sunburn, or are you always this hot?"
“搭訕語”就是那些故意說出來引起異性注意的話，說得難聽點有些類似“泡妞語”，但是運用得當的話也是發起談話的好辦法。當然必須注意要讓女孩知道你是在開玩笑，否則可是很有挑逗的意味，會被認爲是在耍流氓噠！
2) 輕描淡寫開玩笑：
"Nice boots. Do you have your horse parked outside?"（horse boots：馬護腿）
"Nice shoes. They look comfortable."（這句小編不理解的說……難道是指看上去舒服其實穿着不舒服？求高手解答！）
"Nice top（上衣）. My grandma has one."
輕微地說些嘲弄的話可以引起女孩發笑，之後你就等着被她反擊吧！
3) 問上一句，"Are you friendly?" 記得配合上懷疑的眼光。然後，"Good, I'll talk to you." 放心吧，沒有女孩會對你說“不”的！
