女生節：單身女生有12種，要不要來了解一下？

Romantic
1.浪漫少女

You’ve watched every rom com out there and are looking for a soulmates-kind-of-love. Settling is definitely not your thing.
市面上的浪漫愛情片你全都看過，你想要的戀人是一個和你心有靈犀的靈魂伴侶。你是絕對不會將就的。
You’ll know you’ve found THE guy because he’ll shower you with love, affection and gifts while whispering poetry in your ear at a dinner he organized next to a waterfall as a band he hired plays your favorite songs beneath the setting sun. It will be beautiful.
你希望你的另一半能用他的愛和禮物淹沒你，他會在夕陽下的瀑布旁爲你準備一桌晚餐，輕聲在你耳邊爲你念誦情詩，還會讓樂隊在旁邊演奏你最喜歡的歌曲。一切都美妙無比。
If you’re her, remember: There’s nothing wrong with holding out for your soulmate or expecting your guy to be a romantic but be reasonable.
如果你是這樣的女生，請記住：想找一個靈魂伴侶或者一個浪漫的戀人並沒有什麼錯，但還是實際一點好。

Cynic
2.懷疑論者

You’re not a fool. When you meet a guy, you don’t fall hard and fast — you actually assume he’s an jerk from the beginning and make him prove he’s not — you’ve had your heart broken a few times and, you will not let it happen again.
你並不是傻。但是當你遇見一個男孩子的時候，你從來不會有立馬墜入愛河的感覺。你一開始總是先認定他們都是混蛋，然後讓他們證明自己不是。你的心已經傷過好幾次了，你不允許有誰再傷它一次。
If you’re her, remember: We’re all for making a guy prove he’s worthy before letting him in but being too careful/scared can make you seem closed and limit your opportunities.
如果你是這樣的女生，請記住：我們都希望男生能證明自己配得上我們，但如果你總是變現得過於小心翼翼、甚至畏畏縮縮，那你實際上是在自我封閉，這會極大地限制你選擇的餘地。
Be open, hope for the best, and take chances.
還是放開一點比較好，做最好的打算，給自己創造些機會。

Picky Bitch
3.矜持的碧池

You are the bomb so, of course, it takes an extraordinary man to capture your attention. If he doesn’t check all the boxes on your ever-growing list, you can’t be bothered.
你的戰鬥力很高，所以一般的男人是入不了你的法眼的。你的擇偶標準一直在變高，而如果一個男人不能滿足你現在的所有要求，你連看都不想看他一眼。
Your friends say you’re being too selective but you disagree — you just have standards. You know what you want and you’re going to wait until he comes along.
你的朋友都說你太挑了，但你並不這麼想，你只是有底線而已。你知道自己想要什麼，而且你願意等着那個真正對的人到來。
If you’re her, remember: Love is an adventure — it’s uNPRedictable — so there’s a huge chance that the person who knocks your socks off won’t be anything like what you imagined. Toss that list and take every guy on a case-by-case basis.
如果你是這樣的女生，請記住：戀愛是一場冒險，它是無法預測的，所以那個讓你心動的人很可能並不完全是你想象中的樣子。先把你那一長串擇偶標準擱在一邊吧，對於每個男生都應該具體問題具體分析。
If you don’t, you could miss out on some amazing experiences, lessons and the guy of your dreams.
如果你不這麼做的話，你可能會錯過很多美妙的人生體驗，你學到的東西也會更少，更不用談遇上自己的夢中情人了。

Serial Dater.
4.約會狂

It’s not that hard to find a guy. Maybe not for you because, well, you like everyone.
找個男朋友並不難。可能至少對你來說不難，畢竟你幾乎對所有人都有點好感。
That guy who’s totally boring? At least he has a good job. That guy who’s not smart at all? At least he’s fun.
這個男生挺無聊的，但他工作不錯。那個男生好像不怎麼聰明，但他挺有意思。
Your friends think it’s weird that you don’t have a type and accuse you of not having standards but you don’t care — as far as you’re concerned, they’re just jealous because you’re always with someone.
你的朋友覺得你這樣很奇怪，他們覺得你的要求太低了，但你並不在乎；在你看來，她們只是嫉妒你而已，因爲你身邊總有人跟着。
If you’re her, remember: Being open is great but being so open that you’re always taken isn’t healthy. It’s important to take some time for yourself in between relationships to reflect on what you need and really want — we bet you’ll suddenly become more picky.
如果你是這樣的女生，請記住：心態開放是挺不錯，但太開放也不好。在兩段戀情之間還是給自己留點時間比較好，你需要用這段時間來想想自己到底需要什麼、想要什麼。然後總有那麼一天，你會發現自己變成一個有要求的人了。

Desperate Chick
5.脫單狂

Like the Serial Dater, you’ll give anyone a shot but your reasons are different. You’re tired of dating and scared to end up alone.
你和約會狂一樣，幾乎什麼樣的對象都可以試試，但你們這麼做的原因卻不同。你其實已經厭倦了約會，而且害怕自己會孤老一生。
You NEED to be with someone, like right now. Your solution: trying really, really, REALLY hard.
你需要身邊有個人，現在就想要。而你的策略就是：努力脫單，然後更加努力地脫單。
If you’re her, remember: Trying too hard is an awesome way to end up with a terrible guy. You need to put dating and men out of your mind for a while and just have fun.
如果你是這樣的女生，請記住：如果一個人真的這麼飢不擇食，那基本可以確定她會找到一個渣男。別老想着約會和男人，先讓自己好好享受一下生活吧。
Stop trying to force it… If you step back a little, stop obsessing, and take the pressure off, dating will be fun again.
不要總是強求自己，退一步，冷靜一點，給自己減減壓，然後你會發現戀愛又變回了一件美好的事情。

Fatalist
6.宿命論者

You are done. Not done like The Desperate Chick who’s just ready to accept anyone but DONE as in romantic comedies just straight up piss you off now.
你已經認命了。不是像脫單狂那種“誰都可以”式的認命，而是你已經不在乎了，你現在看見浪漫喜劇就想翻白眼。
You tried, it didn’t happen, and now you’re just going to chill in your apartment and let yourself go because why even bother? All those people who are in love are eventually going to break up or get divorced anyway. You’re just saving yourself the heartache.
你累了，你希望發生的那些事都並沒有發生，所以你現在只想一個人窩在房間裏放浪形骸；不然還能怎麼樣呢？那些現在愛得死去活來的人總有一天會分手或者離婚。你這樣是在給自己省事。
If you’re her, remember: Rejection, breakups, heartache — that stuff is HARD. But that doesn’t mean it’s okay to give up. The reward is too big not to try.
如果你是這樣的女生，請記住：被人拒絕、分手、心痛，這些的確都不好受。但這並不代表你應該放棄。前方有那麼美好的結局在等着，如果不嘗試一下豈不是太可惜了？
You don’t realize that because you haven’t met the right person yet. But when you do, you’ll understand why it was all worth it. So stop bitching and pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and get back in the game.
你現在可能還不這麼覺得，但那是因爲你還沒有遇上那個對的人。而你一旦遇上他之後，你就會發現這一切都是值得的。所以別再憤世嫉俗了，振作起來，讓自己重新進入戰場。

Alpha
7.女強人

You are fiercely independent. You don’t just have a job but a career, and no one has ever accused you of not having your act together. You definitely want love in your life but guys have such weak egos that they’re usually intimidated by your success.
你很獨立，而且很強悍。你不止有一份工作，還有一份事業，而且從來沒有人說你做得不夠好。你確實也渴望得到愛情，但是這些男人的自尊心真是太弱了，你的成功讓他們望而卻步。
What’s a girl to do? So, you just keep focusing on work, going on the occasional date when you can fit it in, hoping something will work out one of these days. And if not, oh well, work is already basically the love of your life anyway.
做女人怎麼這麼難？所以，你也沒辦法，你只能把精力都放在工作上，然後偶爾約約會、希望能有點什麼進展。而如果最終也沒能找到合適的人，好吧，至少你還能把工作當成一生摯愛。
If you’re her, remember: Your life is what you make it. If you want love, you have to make room for it. It’s that simple.
如果你是這樣的女生，請記住：生活是靠自己來塑造的。如果你想要愛情，那你就得爲它騰出精力。就這麼簡單。

Clock Watcher
8.大齡危機

You want a baby. In fact, you want a baby so badly that you don’t even care about the guy.
你想要孩子。事實上，你實在太想要孩子了，以至於你都不在乎和什麼樣的男人生。
As long as he has good DNA and a job, you’re down to get knocked up.
只要他DNA還行，然後有份工作，你就覺得能接受。
Sure, it would be nice to fall in love too but whatever — at this point, as long as you get some sperm that can swim, you’re cool.
當然，如果能找到愛情就更好了，但在如今這個節骨眼上，只要能生孩子你就不介意。
If you’re her, remember: We get it. But it’s not cool to go around having uNPRotected sex with the hope of finding yourself preggers. It’s actually kind of messed up.
如果你是這樣的女生，請記住：我們理解你的感受。但隨便找個人生孩子真的不合適。你那是在毀掉自己的生活。

Mess
9.拎不清

You don’t know what you want. As long as you’ve had a few drinks, you’re happy and open to anything and anyone.
你不知道自己想要什麼。只要喝上幾杯，你就覺得一切都挺好、所有人都挺好。
Sure, you often end up in compromising situations — puking in the street, waking up at some random’s house, stumbling home in a daze — but that’s what you do when you’re young, right?
誠然，你常常發現自己很頹廢——吐在街上啊，在不認識的人家裏醒來啊，跌跌撞撞走回家啊——但年輕不就是這樣嗎？
If you’re her, remember: Being young is awesome but squandering that time in a haze of booze is not. And the guys you’re attracting — not the good ones. Get yourself together.
如果你是這樣的女生，請記住：年輕是一件很美妙的事，但把它浪費在酒精裏就不是了。而且你現在這個樣子能吸引來的男人也都不是什麼好人。還是振作起來吧。

Pragmatist
10.務實派

You’re all business. You’re not looking for fireworks but for a stable life partner you can trust. And finding him is your part-time job. You believe it’s all about putting in the time and effort…
你很理智、很實際。你並不想找什麼愛情的火花，你只想找一個你信得過的人一起過穩定的日子。實際上你的業餘工作就是物色這麼一個人。你覺得只要付出時間和精力就能找到。
So, you’re focused and organized — you’re on all the dating sites and you go to all the right places. If you make this enough of a priority, and meet enough guys, one of them will eventually fit.
所以你總是全神貫注，而且僅僅有條；你註冊了所有的婚戀網站，還會去各種獵豔場所。你覺得只要自己花的精力夠多，總能找到合適的人。
If you’re her, remember: What you’re doing is fine. Just remember to loosen up and have some fun too. If you let go a little, you might be surprised and end up not just with the stability you’re looking for, but the fireworks too.
如果你是這樣的女生，請記住：這麼做是可以啦。但也別忘了偶爾放鬆一下，找點樂子。如果你放開一點，說不定會收穫驚喜，不光得到了一直想要的穩定，還找到了愛情的火花。

Princess
11.小公舉

You have old-fashioned sensibilities and need a chivalrous guy. More than anything, you expect to be adored, taken care of and kept according to a certain lifestyle.
你的性格很傳統、很多愁善感，你需要的是那種有騎士精神的男朋友。最主要的，你希望他能寵愛你、照顧你、爲你創造你想要的生活。
Whether it’s sending you flowers, whisking you away for the weekend, or taking you shopping, the right guy for you will be the one who’s all about YOU.
不管他是給你送花、帶你出去過週末、陪你逛街，你希望你的夢中情人心中只有你。
If you’re her, remember: People in love take care of each other but if you’re all about being taken care of financially, you run the risk of coming off like a gold-digger.
如果你是這樣的女生，請記住：相愛的人會互相照顧。如果你只想索取金錢，那麼你很可能只是在傍大款。
Just as women don’t like being objectified for our bodies, men don’t appreciate being objectified for their bank accounts.
就像女人不喜歡別人物化自己的身體，男人也不喜歡別人物化他們的經濟實力。

Zen Girl
12.佛系少女

Sure, it would be great to be in love but being single is pretty amazing too. While your girlfriends are obsessing about how to find their next boyfriend, you’re happy living in the moment, enjoying your freedom.
當然，戀愛是個不過的選擇，但是單身的日子也很棒啊。當你的閨蜜們都在想着如何再找一個男朋友時，你卻願意活在當下、享受自由。
After all, this is the youngest you’ll ever be and you might as well milk it for every ounce of fun.
畢竟，你只能年輕這麼些年，不如抓緊時間好好利用。
If you’re her, remember: This is exactly how you should be. Live your life fully and everything you want will show up.
如果你是這樣的女生，請記住：這就是你應該有的生活方式。盡情享受當下吧，你想要的東西終究會來找你。