比渣男更可怕的，是那些像吸血鬼一樣的渣女
雙十一對中國人來說，是一個神奇的日子。
November 11th is a day beyond reasoning for the Chinese.
而有些人的雙十一，比其他人的雙十一更神奇。
And some people’s November 11th is farther beyond reasoning than others’.
小X是一個住在浙江寧波的男生。
X is a guy who lives in Ningbo of Zhejiang Province.
11月9號，他開心又忙碌，因爲兩天之後的11月11號就是他領證結婚的日子。
On November 9th, he was busy and happy because he was going to get married 2 days latter on November 11th.
而11月12號，就是他的婚禮。
And his wedding was supposed to be on November 12th.
然而，11月10號的晚上，也就是結婚的前一天，他卻和未婚妻分手了，並且覺得整個世界幾乎都崩塌了。
However, in the evening of November 10th, AKA the day before his marriage registration, he broke up with his fiance and felt that his whole world had just collapsed around him.
同時，他的離奇故事也在接下來的幾天傳遍了全國，而他那位未婚妻也受到的來自全國的唾罵。
At the mean time, his insane story started to get famous nationwide. And this fiance of his has since been seen as a villain in every corner of the country.
這一切都是因爲，11月10號，小X終於看到了未婚妻準備的婚前協議。
This all started on November 10th. That day, X finally saw the premarital agreement his fiance had prepared.
而這一紙協議，真的是荒唐至極。
And what’s written on it was totally ridiculous.
根據這個協議，小X所有的個人財產在結婚後都會變成夫妻共有的財產；
According to this agreement, all of X’s property become community property once they get married.
而夫妻共有的財產，全部都由女方管理；
All community property will be administrated by the wife.
另外，小X每個月的工資都歸女方管，每個月由女方給他發零花錢，並且他的所有花費都必須詳細記賬，小X也不許私自辦理自己的卡；
And X’s salary will also be managed by the wife. The wife will give him his allowance monthly and he will have to keep detailed accounts for every expenditure he spends. Plus, he will not be allowed to register for his own new card.
小X出門在外的時候，還必須每天向女方報告行蹤；
And if he ever goes away for any reason, he will have to report to the wife everyday about where he goes and what he does.
然後，結婚後的生育、孩子教育問題，都由女方決定；
Besides this, once they get married, the wife will be the one who decides about having babies and the children’s education.
更可怕的是，小X從父母那得到的任何財產、包括繼承的財產也都得全部變成夫妻的共有財產，並且現在已有的房產證上都必須加上女方的名字。
What’s more horrible is that all of X’s property which he gets or inherits from his parents will become the couple’s community property. And he will have to put his wife’s name on all the property ownership certificates that he already owns.
最後，協議還規定，女方有權解除這段婚姻，而小X要放棄夫妻共同財產，換句話說也就是所有財產，而且還得在離婚之後的一年內賠償女方120萬。
And beside all these the agreement also says that the wife has the right to end this marriage and X will have to give up all the community property, which means all of his property, once this happens and compensate the wife 1.2 million RMB in one year.
這真的是一個愛你的人能定出的協議嗎？
Is this really an agreement that comes from someone who loves you.
這個協議的不平等程度，已經能比得上清朝籤的那些喪權辱國的條約了吧。
This agreement is as unequal as the treaties the Qing Dynasty signed in the past.
正因爲如此，小X看了覺得心裏很難受，然後當場決定，這婚不要結了，兩天後的婚禮也當即取消。
And because of this, X felt that he’d had enough and he decided immediately not to get married with this woman. The wedding which was supposed to be held 2 days latter was also canceled right away.
失望之極的他，把這件事告訴了他聘請的婚禮主持人，並告訴他們可以開始準備接新的生意了。
Feeling extremely disappointed, he informed this to the wedding host he hired and told him that he can set off to find a new deal now.
主持人看了之後，覺得新娘真的是過分，於是他打抱不平地把這事公佈到了網上。
After seeing all this, the host thought the bride was completely outrageous. So he decided to fight this injustice and make this public on the Internet.
這哪裏是在找老公？
Can you really say that she was looking for a husband?
這分明是在找一個能賺錢的奴隸。
Apparently no. What she wanted was a slave who can make money for her.
按照這個新娘訂立的協議，小X辛苦奮鬥多年的成果、以及他父母這大半輩子的勞動成果，全都要拱手送給這個女人。
According to the agreement the bride established, X will have to hand over everything that he had achieved through all those years’ strive and the fruits of his parents' whole lives to her.
而且小X還得放棄自己今後的一切自由。
And X will also have to give up all of his freedom.
試問一個人得傻到什麼樣的地步纔可能同意這種協議？
How silly must a man be to agree to sign this?
一個人又得惡毒到什麼樣的地步纔會開出這樣的協議？
How vicious must a woman be to even propose this?
是的，這個社會上有很多渣男。
Yes, there are a lot of jerks out there.
女性們樂此不疲地批判着他們。
And women enjoy criticizing them.
可是，在對渣男的聲討當中，似乎絕大多數人都忽視了男女關係中的另一種毒瘤。
But most people seem to fail in noticing another kind of tumor that is poisoning the relation between the two genders.
那就是這些像吸血鬼一樣的渣女，她們其實比渣男更可恨。
This tumor is those vampire-like female jerks. They are even worse than their male counterparts.
她們可能滿嘴都是純潔的愛情，但是，在他們內心深處，男人不過是一臺提款機。
They keep speaking about pure love. But deep down in their hearts they only see a man as an ATM.
愛情、婚姻、忠貞、道德，都不過是她們達到自己目的手段。
Love, marriage, faithfulness, moral, these are all just means they manipulate to serve their own purposes.
她們歌頌着自己的獨立，卻可以否認你的自由。
They sing about their own independence. But they deny your freedom.
她們自豪於自己的個性，卻要求你無條件地順從。
They take pride in their own personality. But they demand your complete obedience.
所以，大家都醒醒吧。
So wake up, everybody.
每個人都是自由的，每個人都是平等的，每個人都有自己的權力邊界。
We are all free and equal individuals. And we all have our own boundaries.
而婚姻和愛情，都不是越界的理由。
Love or marriage, neither of them gives the right to trespass.
如果有人要求你爲愛情付出一切，那你應該儘早離開這個人；
If someone asks you to give up everything for love, you'd better leave this person as soon as possible.
因爲，她要麼是蠢，要麼是壞。
Because she is either stupid or evil.
而無論是這裏面的哪一種，都不值得你付出。
Either case, she doesn’t deserve you.
