E聊吧第55期:如何分辨他是否喜歡你
網羅天下新鮮、好玩、有趣、時尚的英語表達，盡在獨家專欄節目"E聊吧"。
How to Tell if a Guy Really Does Like You?如何分辨他是否喜歡你呢？
Pay attention to how often he calls or text messages. Guys will call if they like you because they want to talk to you. A lot of guys don't talk on the phone very much unless they are interested in someone. If he sends you text messages during the day just to let you know he's thinking about you or to say "hi,"chancesare he likes you.
注意他給你打電話或發短信的頻率。男生如果喜歡你，會給你電話，因爲他們想跟你說話。很多男生不常講電話，除非他們對某人有興趣。如果他某天給你發短信，只是告訴你他想你，或是打聲招呼，那麼很有可能他喜歡你。
Notice if he is stopping by to visit places where he knows you will be. Does he come to your work, to your favorite hangout or to your softball game? A guy will make excuses to stop by places where a girl is if he wants to see her.
留心他是否會去一些你總會去的地方。他是否到過你的工作的地方，你喜歡去玩的地方或是是常玩壘球的地方？如果一個男生想見到他喜歡的女生，他一定會找藉口去她所在的地方。
Ask yourself if he sends you flowers or gives you little gifts when he sees you. Guys want to see girls smile. If your guy is bringing you your favorite candy bar or a rose, chances are, he likes you.
問問你自己在見面的時候，他是否送過你花或是一些小禮物。男生喜歡看見女生笑。如果他送你喜歡的糖果或玫瑰，那麼他很有可能喜歡你。
Think about what he says to you when you are talking about a problem that could be fixed with a little help. For example, if you need car work done but you have no one to drive you to work, does the guy offer to drive you, even if it is out of his way? If you need someone to feed your cat while you are gone for the weekend, does he volunteer? Guys want to help out the girls they like. This will make a guy feel good and, in turn, he will make you feel good, too, which makes him happy.
回想一下，當你談到需要他幫忙解決某個問題的時候，他的反應。例如，你需要去工作，但是沒有人來開車載你去。他有沒有主動提出開車載你，即使一點都不順路？如果你需要某人在你離開期間幫忙喂貓，他有沒有主動提出要幫你？男生都是喜歡幫助他們喜歡的女生。這讓他感覺很良好，也會讓你感覺良好，這樣他會非常開心。
Keep track of the places you go when you do things together. Is he trying to impress you? Did he remember the pizza place on Green Street was your favorite and take you there one night? If a guy likes a girl, he wants to make her happy and do things that please her. He will remember important details, and he will follow through on them.
想想你們一起做事的時候，你們去過的地方，他有沒有想給你留下好印象？他是否記得格林街的那家披薩店是你的最愛，是否在某天晚上突然帶你過去？如果男生喜歡某個女生，他一定會傾盡所能，讓她開心。他會記得一些重要的細節，並展示出來。
Pay attention to his facial expressions and gestures while he talks to you. If he makes eye contact with you and touches you lightly while talking, he is flirting with you, which means he is interested. Look at his smile, too. A nice, genuine smile is a sure sign that he is into you.
留意他跟你說話的時候的面部表情和肢體動作。如果他說話時有眼神交流，會輕輕地碰觸你，那麼他是在“挑逗”你，也就是說他對你有意思。注意他的微笑。如果是一種燦爛的，發自內心的微笑，那麼他一定喜歡你。
