雙語閱讀：十個技巧讓ta更愛你

以下是小編整理的英語文章：十個技巧讓ta更愛你， 希望能對大家的英語學習有幫助。

A Quora user asked: What are the best romantic relationship hacks? And then people shared their tried-and-true tips.

Quora上一位網友提問：愛情中最棒的技巧有哪些?網友們紛紛根據自己的經歷給出了答案。

1. Keep a secret running list of stuff you partner wants to do or have.

1. 偷偷記下另一半想要的東西和想做的事情。

Then, on a special occasion or when you have the money, take that special weekend trip, buy that nifty thing.

然後在一個特別的時刻或是當你攢夠錢以後，帶着TA去度假或是買下那個TA早就想要的小玩意兒。

2. After a fight go for walk and hold hands.

2. 吵架之後牽着手一起散步。

Conversations are easier to have when you’re side-by-side rather than facing one another. Plus, can you really stay mad at someone when their hand is in yours?

肩並肩的談話要比面對面容易得多。而且當你握着對方的手時你怎麼還會生TA的氣呢?

3. Use a silly codeword to ease tension during a fight or tough conversation.

3. 在吵架或爭執時使用一些你們兩人才懂的暗語來緩解氣氛。

Make a deal that if one of you says your secret defusing code word, you’ll both stop arguing, hug, and find a solution. Chiminychonga!

你們可以約定好只要其中一人說到你們的祕密暗語比如Chiminychonga什麼的，你們就停止爭吵，擁抱並嘗試尋找更好的解決方法。

4. Date your longterm partner like you’re still in the honeymoon stage.

4. 跟已是老夫老妻的另一半來一場初戀般、蜜月期的約會。

Pretend that you’re new to each other that you still have to work hard at being an awesome partner (even though you’ve already landed them).

你們可以假裝剛剛認識對方，所以得非常努力地博取對方的好感和認可。

5. When you’re together, give them your full attention.

5. 兩人在一起的時候，要把全部注意力都放在對方身上。

Like don’t even scroll through your instas. Make your person feel heard by really listening.

比如不要不停地用手機刷instagrams，而要真正通過傾聽來了解和關心對方。

6. Plan sponteneity.

6. 主動計劃。

Schedule in days of doing fun stuff you wouldn’t normally do like building a blanket fortor having an indoor campfire or going on a tandem bike ride.

計劃做一些你們平時不常做的但有趣的事情，比如搭一個毯子堡壘、來一次室內篝火晚會或是進行一次雙人自行車騎行活動等。

7. Say thank you constantly even for small stuff.

7. 即使是小事情也要常說謝謝。

Look, even though they’re minor tasks, no one wants to replace the toilet paper roll or hang up your dumb shirts. Just let your partner know you appreciate their contribution to your little world.

雖然是一些很瑣碎很不值得一提的事情，但其實沒人願意爲你換廁紙、掛衣服等等。所以要讓你的另一半知道你感謝TA爲你所做的每一件小事。

8. If you don’t really care about a thing, don’t argue about it.

8. 如果你真的不在意一件事情，就不要因此爭執。

Let little stuff go and only make it a thing if it’s something truly important to you.

不要計較一些小事，除非這件事對你來說真的相當重要。

9. Give empowering gifts.

9. 爲TA想做的事情創造條件。

If you partner has always wanted to learn tap dancing or go sky diving or travel solo but is too scared to take the leap or spend the money, show them your support and encouragement by gifting them the experiences they want.

如果你的另一半一直想學跳踢踏舞、想去跳傘或獨自旅遊但又缺乏勇氣或是怕花錢的話，你就要表示出你的支持和鼓勵，爲TA創造條件幫助TA完成自己的心願。

10. Be the antidote to your partner’s hangups.

10. 爲你的另一半排憂解難。

It feels damn validating when your partner goes out of their way to let you know they love the very thing about us we’re worried is weird or bad or flawed.

尤其是當你的另一半想盡辦法方法讓你知道TA喜歡幫你分擔那些令你擔憂的事情時，你會更加確定這一點。

11. Give praise.

11. 不要吝嗇你的誇獎。

Tell you’re partner how proud you are they got something done, took a step, faced a challenge, etc., no matter how small.

當你的另一半成功完成某件事、取得某種進步或面對某項挑戰時，要告訴TA你爲TA驕傲。