如何讓一個男人向你承諾
Be Decisive and Strong
果斷且堅強
Sure, biologically guys are programmed to be in control. But this doesn't mean you should become his lap dog. Or that you rely on him to make every single decision. If he has to decide everything for you from where to eat to what to do next Saturday night, he'll become super bored, or worse, annoyed very quickly. He chose to be with you because of who you are. Keep being that strong, independent woman and watch as it draws him in deeper!
當然，從生物學角度看，男人天生就是掌控者。但這並不意味着你要當他的舔狗。也並不意味着你需要依賴他做每一個決定。如果他需要決定你的一切（包括去哪兒吃飯、下週六晚做什麼等），他會超級無聊的，更甚者，不需要多久他就會變得不耐煩。他喜歡你最真實的樣子。繼續做一個堅強而又獨立的女性吧，他會越陷越深的！
Keep Living YOUR Life
過自己的生活
Early on, it can be hard to resist spending every waking moment with your lover. But resist you must! Because even though he says he wants to be around you non-stop and do every little thing together, your man will miss and crave you more when you're not around.
戀愛初期，你幾乎抵擋不住這樣的誘惑：無時無刻都想和愛人膩在一起。但你必須拒絕！因爲即便他說他想隨時隨地在你身邊，想和你做每一件小時，但你不在身邊的時候，他纔會更想你。
You had your own exciting, adventurous life before he came along. Don't stop living it just because now he's in your life. Go grab a cocktail with the girls, take yoga three times a week or getaway over the weekend - he'll be begging to be with you when you get back.
遇見他之前，你的生活也很精彩呀。不要因爲他進入了你的生活，而停止了以往的生活方式。和閨蜜們喝杯雞尾酒、每週練3次瑜伽、週末去度假--當你回來時，他會求着你和他待在一起的。
Support Him
支持他
We all have dreams. But guys in particular are big dreamers. Whether your man is trying to start a business, going back to college, or becoming an EDM DJ, show some support for his dreams. Even if they seem totally unrealistic, shattering his dreams by putting them down is a sure-fire way he'll choose them over you.
我們都有夢想，尤其是男人，他們都是大夢想家。不管他是想創業、重讀大學或是做一名電子舞DJ，你都要支持他們的夢想。即使這些夢想看上去不切實際，打擊他卻無疑會讓他選擇夢想放棄你。
Having you in his corner supporting him every step of the way is one of the deepest ways the two of you will connect. It's a building block of real long-term commitment. It shows you'll be by his side along the journey - a big psychological boost.
但如果在他追逐夢想的路上，你一直都支持着他，你們的感情肯定會越來越深。這是長期承諾的基石。這說明你會一直陪伴着他--無疑是心理安慰。
Show Gratitude
感恩
As you settle into life as a couple, it's easy to forget the little things like saying "thank you". But you'd be surprised how much this little show of appreciation does for commitment. Take a moment to say a small thank you, whether it's for cleaning up, picking up something from the store, or pulling your chair out for you.
你們已漸漸過得像對小夫妻了，這時候很容忘記一些小事，比方說"謝謝你"。但這種誇讚卻會帶來意想不到的承諾。對他說聲謝謝吧，不管是因爲他打掃了衛生、從商店買了東西還是爲你拉了凳子。
