老人給孫子進行入園不吃虧培訓 有人推你就咬他!大綱

Chinese parents have long been regarded as practitioners of strict education, while most Chinese grandparents usually do the opposite, at least to their own grandchildren.
中國父母長期以來一直被視爲嚴格教育的實踐者，而大多數中國的祖父母則恰恰相反，至少在對待孫輩上。

Ms. Zhou from Wuhan, Hubei, has recently left her pre-kindergarten son Xiaolei in his grandparents' house, as the two seniors hoped to have more quality time with their beloved grandson before he went to school.
來自湖北武漢的周女士，最近將他準備上幼兒園的兒子小磊留在了爺爺奶奶家，因爲兩位老人希望在孫子上學前能和他共享更多的美好時光。

However, Ms. Zhou found his son, who used to be nice to everyone, became aggressive and difficult when she picked him up one month later.
然而，在一個月之後接回兒子時，周女士發現原本還算乖巧的兒子變得愛打人、難以相處。

It turned out that Xiaolei had been receiving bully prevention training from his grandparents to "keep him safe from bullies."
原來，小磊這個月來接受了爺爺奶奶的“預防被欺凌訓練”， 以“免受欺負，保護自身安全”。

The one-month training program was quite effective. When asked: "If someone pushes you, what would you do?" Xiaolei answered: "I will grab his arm and bite him!"
爲期一個月的訓練非常有效。當被問起，“有小朋友衝過來推你，你怎麼辦？”小磊說，“我就抓住他的胳膊，咬他”。

When asked: "What if he cries loud to alert the teacher?" He responded: "Then I will lie on the ground and cry louder!"
再問，“他要是大聲哭，引來老師呢？”小磊答：“我就躺在地上，哭得比他還要大聲。”

Much to Ms. Zhou's amusement, Xiaolei's grandparents also taught him some special moves to hurt someone without leaving actual injury, according to the boy's aunt.
讓周女士啼笑皆非的是，據小磊的姑姑講，爺爺奶奶還教了孫子一些特別的動作，在打架時讓對方既感覺到疼，又不容易產生實際傷害。

"His self-protection awareness still needs to be further improved," Xiaolei's grandparents told Ms. Zhou.
小磊的爺爺奶奶還不忘囑咐周女士：“他的自我保護意識還需要強化。”

Chen Hongmei, a child education expert, believes such inappropriate training will only make the child even more anxious about school and make it harder for him to adapt in society.
幼兒教育專家陳紅梅認爲，這種不當的教育方式只會強化孩子入學前的焦慮心理，會對他的社會適應能力造成嚴重阻礙。

"Every child has his or her own way to interact with other people. Adults should not interfere too much," Chen said.
陳紅梅說道：“每個孩子都有他的社交方式，成年人不應該過多幹預。”