男人離婚不好過 女人離婚第二春

The survey revealed that men suffer far more in emotional terms than women — and are much more likely to let themselves go and not eat properly. In the year after divorce, 48 per cent of men describe themselves as feeling ‘very lonely’, compared with just 35 per cent of women.

隨着離婚率的日益升高，人們對於婚姻這件事愈發謹慎，有一些好事的專家調查了離婚後的男女生活狀況，他們發現男人在離婚後的生活質量大大降低、放縱自己、飲食不規範、體重大增，有48%的男人聲稱自己感到異常孤獨，相反，離婚後的女人日子卻越過越滋潤，感到自己孤獨的女性百分比只佔到總人數的38%.

Men often bear the financial brunt of divorce, too, finding themselves supporting the family they have left behind and somehow having to finance a new roof over their own head, too. If they meet someone new, they are then faced with the prospect of supporting their new partner and any additional children.

據分析，男人在離婚後會開始再一次面臨自己自結婚後生命中新一輪的“經濟危機”，爲了自己的愛情、新愛情，重新擔當起經濟支柱，也就是說，剛剛因經濟壓力過重而離婚的男人們，再一次掉進痛苦的深淵。

Women, the survey stated, find it much easier to ‘move on’ and leave the past behind, and have a far wider emotional support network of friends. As a result, it is perhaps no surprise that more women than ever are initiating divorce. The latest UK figures for 2009 show that 68 per cent of the 113,949 divorce proceedings that year were started by women.

然而調查稱，對於女人來說，離婚後的日子相對男人來說會比較舒適，因女性會擁有一堆支持自己的閨蜜可以傾訴的原因，女人拋開過去、展望未來的能力比男性要高。結果是，越來越多的獨立女性因不滿自己的婚姻生活而主動向男方提離婚，英國2009年在近12萬的離婚案例中，有68%的女人爲離婚主動申請一方。

More long-term marriages are ending, too — divorce initiated by women in the age 45-plus bracket rose by an astonishing 30 per cent in the ten years between 1997 and 2007.

據悉，在1997到2007年10年間，年過45歲主動提離婚的女性人數逐年攀升，達到30%。

'Women seem to cope much better emotionally with divorce. They have a wider network of friends, find it much easier to talk about their emotions than men, and although they are not always better off financially, they often use divorce as the springboard to a new career'

Adam Witkover, divorce lawyer

離婚律師Adam Witkover說：“女人在面對離婚的時候會更感性化，因性別關係，她們平時更願意同閨蜜傾訴自己的感情生活，相比男人來說不會那麼憋屈，離婚對於女人來說不是世界末日，有更多的女人願意把離婚當作自己重新投身事業的新起點。”