你不可不知的30個人生哲理（下）
sometimes do things that are permanently foolish just because we are temporarily upset. A lot of heartache can be avoided if you learn to control your emotions.
有時候我們會因爲一時的失意做出讓我們抱憾終身的事情。學會控制你的情緒，你就不會爲很多無謂的事情心痛了。
one else doesn’t have to be wrong for you to be right. There are many roads to what’s right. You cannot judge others by your own past. They are living a different life than you. What might be good for one person may not be good for another. What might be bad for one person might change another person’s life for the better. You have to allow people to make their own mistakes and their own decisions.
縱然你是對的，你也不能全盤否定別人。正確的定義有很多。你不能將你的價值觀強加在別人身上。每個人都是不同的。對於這個人而言這是對的，但對那個人卻不一定。同樣的，也許對某人不利的卻改善了另一個人的一生。你得允許別人犯錯，也要允許他們自己做決定。
dy is perfect, and nobody deserves to be perfect. Nobody has it easy. You never know what people are going through. Every one of us has issues. So don’t belittle yourself or anyone else. Everybody is fighting their own unique war.
人無完人，也沒有必須完美。每個人過得都不容易。你不會知道他們都經歷了些什麼。每個人都有自己要去做的事情。所以，不要輕視你自己或者他人。每個人都有自己要去應對的戰爭。
19.A smile doesn’t always mean a person is happy. Sometimes it simply means they are strong enough to face their problems.
有時候，微笑，並不代表快樂。僅僅說明面對困難，我們足夠堅強。
happiest people I know keep an open mind to new ideas and ventures, use their leisure time as a means of mental development, and love good music, good books, good pictures, good company and good conversation. And oftentimes they are also the cause of happiness in others – me in particular.
我認識的最快樂的人，他們思想開放、敢於冒險；他們會利用閒暇時光來提升心智，熱愛高雅的音樂、有深度的書籍、精美的畫作、傑出的工作夥伴還有睿智的談話。通常，他們也是其他人快樂的源泉——對我尤其如此。
can’t take things too personally. Rarely do people do things because of you. They do things because of them.
你不能太主觀臆斷。沒有人是生下來就爲你而活的。他們的所作所爲也是爲了他們自己。
ings change, people change, and time keeps rolling. You can hold on to past mistakes or you can create your own happiness. A smile is a choice, not a miracle. True happiness comes from within. Don’t make the mistake of waiting on someone or something to come along and make you happy.
情變了、人變了、而時間依然在向前奔跑。你可以選擇繼續沉溺於過去的失敗，或是開創你自己新的幸福。微笑，只是一個選擇，不是奇蹟。真正的幸福是發自內心的。不要以爲會有某個人或某件事來給你幸福。
’s much harder to change the length of your life than it is to change the depth of it.
我們無法改變人生的長度，卻可以改變它的深度。
end up regretting the things you did NOT do far more than the things you did.最終，那些你後悔“沒做”的事情，總是比“做過”的事情要多。
you stop chasing the wrong things you give the right things a chance to catch you.
當你不再執迷不悟時，你給了自己一個機會，去走上正確的道路。
of the greatest challenges in life is being yourself in a world that’s trying to make you like everyone else.
人生一大難事，就是做你自己。因爲總是有那麼多的因素讓你變得和別人一樣。
y the little things, because one day you may look back and discover they were the big things.
珍惜不起眼的“小”，因爲，有一天，當你回首往事，你會發現那些看似微不足道的“小”，纔是真正的“大”。
ne can make a difference. Making one person smile can change the world. Maybe not the whole world, but their world.
人人都能改變世界。讓人微笑並不會改變整個世界，但會改變他（她）自己的世界。
ything is a life lesson. Everyone you meet, everything you encounter, etc. They’re all part of the learning experience we call ‘life.’ Never forget to acknowledge the lesson, especially when things don’t go your way. If you don’t get a job that you wanted or a relationship doesn’t work, it only means something better is out there waiting. And the lesson you just learned is the first step towards it.
生活中，到處都是學堂。每一個你遇見的人、每一件你經歷的事情等等，它們共同組成了這樣一個大學堂，我們稱之爲“人生”。你應該感謝它們，特別是當你遇到不順時。如果你找不到心儀的工作，人際關係不和諧，不要擔心，這意味着有更好的正在遠處等着你。就在剛纔，你已經學會了一課，那就是勇敢得邁出第一步。
rdless of how filthy your past has been, your future is still spotless. Don’t start your day with the broken pieces of yesterday. Every day is a fresh start. Each day is a new beginning. Every morning we wake up is the first day of the rest of our life.
不管你的過去有多糟糕，你的未來仍是一塵未染的。不要帶着昨日的殘片來開心今天的生活。每一天都是新的開始。每天早上醒來，又是餘下人生的第一天。
你不可不知的30個人生哲理（上）
