開啓快樂一天：8個小習慣讓生活更美好
These minor changes in your daily routine will make a major difference in your life and career.
日常生活中做點細小的改變，也許會對你的人生和事業有着重大的影響。
Happiness is the only true measure of personal success. Making other people happy is the highest expression of success, but it's almost impossible to make others happy if you're not happy yourself.
快樂是個人成功的唯一標準，讓別人快樂則是成功的最高境界了，但如果你自己都不開心，又怎麼能讓別人開心呢？
With that in mind, here are eight small changes that you can make to your daily routine that, if you're like most people, will immediately increase the amount of happiness in your life：
下面是8個日常生活中小改變，如果你像大部分人一樣照做了，那麼很快就會感到更快樂。
1. Start each day with expectation.
充滿期待的開始新的一天
If there's any big truth about life, it's that it usually lives up to (or down to) your expectations. Therefore, when you rise from bed, make your first thought: "something wonderful is going to happen today." Guess what? You're probably right.
如果生活中有什麼真理的話，那就是它從來不會辜負你對它的期待。因此一早起牀，就要開始想：今天肯定會發生超棒的事情。說不定，你還真說對了。
2. Take time to plan and prioritize.
把事情按優先順序計劃好
The most common source of stress is the perception that you've got too much work to do. Rather than obsess about it, pick one thing that, if you get it done today, will move you closer to your highest goal and purpose in life. Then do that first.
最普通的壓力來源於你有太多的工作要去做。與其感到困擾，不如先挑出一件事情，如果今天完成了它，就會離最終人生目標更進一步。那麼就先對它動手吧！
3. Give a gift to everyone you meet.
給你遇見的每個人一份小禮物
I'm not talking about a formal, wrapped-up present. Your gift can be your smile, a word of thanks or encouragement, a gesture of politeness, even a friendly nod. And never pass beggars without leaving them something. Peace of mind is worth the spare change.
我指的當然不是正式的包裝好的禮物。這裏的禮物，可以是你的笑容，一句感謝或鼓勵的話語，禮貌的手勢甚至是一個友好的點頭。如果經過乞丐身邊，千萬別忘了施捨點什麼。用這些零錢換來平和的心態很值得。
4. Deflect partisan conversations.
避免敏感性話題
Arguments about politics and religion never have a "right" answer but they definitely get people all riled up over things they can't control. When such topics surface, bow out by saying something like: "Thinking about that stuff makes my head hurt."
對政治和宗教的爭論永遠都沒有正確的答案，但偏偏這些我們普通人無法控制的事情倒真能讓人生氣。一旦這類話題出現，不如這樣迴應：“想這種事會讓我頭疼”。5. Assume people have good intentions.
把每個人都想成是善意的
Since you can't read minds, you don't really know the "why" behind the "what" that people do. Imputing evil motives to other people's weird behaviors adds extra misery to life, while assuming good intentions leaves you open to reconciliation.
既然你不會讀心術，也必然不會知道人們做事背後的原因。對別人怪異的行爲妄加惡意的猜測，只會讓你的生活更加糟糕，以善意揣度別人會讓你更加和善。
6. Eat high quality food slowly.
美食慢慢品嚐
Sometimes we can't avoid scarfing something quick to keep us up and running. Even so, at least once a day try to eat something really delicious, like a small chunk of fine cheese or an imported chocolate. Focus on it; taste it; savor it.
有時候我們不得不狼吞虎嚥來繼續工作。即使這樣，一天至少也要好好的品嚐一次美味的食物，比如小塊芝士或進口巧克力。專心吃，慢慢品嚐，盡情享受。
7. Let go of your results.
別太在意結果
The big enemy of happiness is worry, which comes from focusing on events that are outside your control. Once you've taken action, there's usually nothing more you can do. Focus on the job at hand rather than some weird fantasy of what might happen.
快樂最大的敵人是擔憂，而擔憂通常來自於對無法控制事情的過度關注。一旦你已經做了，那麼再也無力更改。關注眼前的工作，切忌對可能發生的事情胡亂猜想。
8. End each day with gratitude.
帶着感激結束每一天
Just before you go to bed, write down at least one wonderful thing that happened. It might be something as small as a making a child laugh or something as huge as a million dollar deal. Whatever it is, be grateful for that day because it will never come again.
睡覺之前，寫下今天發生的至少一件好事。也許只是逗小孩笑這樣的小事，又或者是談成了一百萬美金生意這樣的大事。無論是什麼，都要對這天充滿感激，因爲這天無法再重來了。
