剩男剩女們的生活悲喜劇
Many unmarried people would like to say “I am happy”， considering the single will be free, easy, carefree, and there is no need to worry about the family. The whole family will not be hungry when one is stuffed. You don’t have to care about other people, you can do what ever in your own way, and nothing matters too much。
但也有些單身的人們會說自己不快樂， 認爲自己就像是孤單的木偶， 伴着寂寞，心中是無比的失落與空蕩. 獨自去遠方徘徊暢遊，一個人坐看晚霞映紅西山，一個人吃着早餐，一個人獨自睡去，一個人看着電視劇說着不知所云的話。
However, many guys will say they are unhappy, like a lonely puppet with infinite boredom and emptiness. When you go travelling far way, you watch the beautiful sunset varnishing the sky, you have breakfast alone, fall asleep alone and watch the TV dramas alone without knowing what it is about。
如果是單身，你會害怕長夜的寂寞嗎？
If you are single, are you afraid of the lonely long night?
如果是單身，你會擔心將來的結果嗎？
If you are single, are you afraid of your future?
如果是單身，你會在乎身邊人的幸福嗎？
If you are single, do you care about other people’s happiness?
如果是單身，你會覺得快樂嗎？
If you are single, are you happy? Everything has its double sides. It's hard to say happy or not to be a single. It all depends on what situation you are in。
每一件事都有它的兩面性。很難說單身到底快樂與否。這得取決於你處於什麼樣的情景。
Well, when you want to do something for yourself, you don't have to think about your family if you are a single. That's very joyful. And you just feel free to do whatever you want, there might have no restrictions in your single life. That is happy。
好，當你想要只爲自己做一些事情的時候，如果你是單身，你不需要考慮你的家人。那是非常愉快的。你只是自由的做你想做的事，在單身生活中，這裏也許不會有約束。那是一種快樂。
But, have you ever thought about when you are in trouble, who is going to help you? When you are sick, who is going to look after you?
但是，你有沒有想過，當你處於困境中，有誰可以幫你？或是當你生病了，誰會來照顧你？
You might say " I have got frends!" Yes, your friends maybe can help but have you ever thought about their own life?
你也許會說“我有很多朋友。”是的，你的朋友也許可以幫助你，可你有沒有想過你朋友自己的生活呢？
And, life is not only for obtaining but also giving. How do you feel if you could help your beloved, if you could make them happy? That would be very cheerful to see our beloved smiling。
還有，生活不只是獲取，同樣也是付出。如果你能幫助你所愛的人，如果你能讓你所愛的人快樂，你會是一種什麼樣的感覺？看到我們心愛的人微笑應該是非常愉快的。
So, it's hard to say happy or not to be a single。
所以，真的很難說，單身到底是否快樂。
