11個準則,成功定位你的人生目標(圖)

Check if you already have a purpose ?If you find your present life purposeless just look again. In the totality of life there is no purpose that is too small or too big. Even a street sweeper fulfills a very important purpose in his life. Even if you are working in a small firm you are fulfilling a vital purpose in the link of life by the service you provide.
May be you are supporting a family, or raising kids, that抯 quite a significant purpose. If you think your life is meaningless right now, it would just show that you are not really paying attention to your present role.
檢查一下你是否已經有一個目標了？如果你認爲現在的生活豪無目的，那麼只要再看一下。在整個生命長河中沒有什麼目標是太小或太大的。甚至一個掃大街的也在實現他生命中最重要的目標。即使你在一家小公司工作，你也在通過所提供的服務實現一個與人生有關的重大目標。
可能你正在維持一家生計或養育孩子，這是相當重要的目標。如果你覺得目前生活毫無意義，這隻表示你沒有真正地重視你目前的角色。

Your true calling need not be magnanimous ?Some people get really famous while some live a private life. There is no real difference between the two. Each person fulfills a specific role and no role is more important than the other.
Your inherent talent might just define your life's purpose ?It's surprising how many people go through life with some incredible talent within which they don't convert to a career or service. If you have a talent, it's life's gift to you. Try to find the best way possible to convert your talent to something which gives service to people. There is no better way to live a purpose, and make money, than through a inherent talent.
你內心真正的呼喚不需要高大宏偉？有些人真的名聲顯赫而有些人卻過着默默無聞的生活，這兩者之間沒有什麼實質的差別，每個人都在完成一個特定的角色，沒有一個角色比另一個更重要。
你與生俱來的天分可能正好可以確定你的人生目標？令人驚訝的是有多少人具有令人難以置信的天分卻終其一生沒有將其轉換成事業或服務。如果你有一種天分，那是生命賜予你的禮物。努力找到可能的最佳方法把你的天分轉換成可爲人們提供服務的東西。沒有比通過天生的才能爲了一個目標生活和賺錢更好的方式了。

Listen to your heart rather than your mind ?Heart and mind are just metaphors. Heart denotes your intuition while the mind stems out of your conditioning patterns. Get in touch with the inner voice in your heart and see if there is a deep seated desire that is recurring. May be all along you have just ignored this desire.
Your mind might find several excuses to tell you what your heart wants is impractical, but that's just your conditioning speaking. The voice of your heart is always true and it points to your deep seated yearning.
聽從你的心而不是腦？心和腦只是比喻。心表示你的直覺而腦來自你的條件作用模式。聆聽你內心深處的聲音，看心底是否有深埋的渴望正在甦醒，可能一直以來你忽視了這個渴望。
你的腦可能會找到幾個藉口，告訴你你的心所想要的是不切實際的，但那恰是你的條件作用在說話。你心的聲音永遠是真實的，它指出你內心深處的嚮往。

Write up an essay on what type of life you want to live ?It's amazing how many insights you can get simply by writing down your thoughts. There are millions of thoughts rushing through the mind each day and it's difficult to make sense of it all. When you sit down to write, the thoughts become more organized.
Without much ado just start typing or writing down what type of life you really want to live. Just write freely without involving the mind too much, let the words just come out of your subconscious. You might have to write for a few minutes before you really get into the groove.
It helps to write for a few hours even if your mind stops churning out ideas. It's precisely when the mind gives up that the heart starts talking. When you read this essay you can find your purpose in life in some of the words or sentences that came out subconsciously.
寫篇短文詳細描述你想過什麼類型的生活？令人驚異的是通過寫下你的想法可以使你獲得多少深刻的見解。每天有數百萬的想法匆匆穿行於大腦，很難把所有的都弄懂。當你坐下來寫的時候，那些想法變的更有條理了。無需太多忙亂，只要開始鍵入或寫下你真正想過的是什麼類型的生活。只是自由地寫，不要過多地把大腦捲進來，讓字句由你的潛意識產生。你可能要寫上幾分鐘才能真正地進入最佳狀態。
寫上幾個小時是有幫助的，即使你的大腦停止了大量產生想法。這正是你的大腦放棄了而心開始說話的時候。當你讀這篇短文時，你可以在一些發自下意識的詞句之間找到你的人生目標。

Let the answer come from stillness ?Our intelligence operates at two levels ?one is the noisy mind and the next is the silent space of stillness within us. The space of stillness is far more intelligent than the conditioned mind and this has been proven by several creative geniuses who speak of entering the zone of no-mind before creating their master pieces.
To access this space of stillness, just sit in a relaxed position and get in touch with you inner body. When you place you attention on your inside of your body, the mind tends to stop. Feel the sensations and energy passing through your body. After a while all these sensations will subside and will give way to stillness. Ask for your purpose in this state of stillness without expecting a verbal answer from your mind.
Sometimes you might get your answer immediately as a sudden burst of intuition or you might get your answer later in your dreams or waking state.
讓答案從寧靜中來？我們的智能在兩個層面上運作，一個是聒噪的大腦，另一個是我們內心的無聲的寧靜空間。寧靜空間比被制約的大腦要聰明得多，這已被幾個有創新精神的天才證明了，他們談到在創作最傑出的作品前進入無意識狀態。
要進入寧靜空間，只要以放鬆姿勢坐着，感知你的身體內在。當你把注意力放到身體內在時，大腦趨向於停止運作，感到感覺和精神穿過你的身體。過一會所有這些感覺都會消退，讓位於寧靜。在這種寧靜的狀態下詢問你的目標，不要指望從你大腦裏得到一個口頭的答案。
有時你可能從突然出現的直覺中立即得到答案或者以後在夢中或醒着時得到答案。

Follow up on your intuition ?Whenever you get an intuitive hit to do something just follow up on it. Sometimes it's important to take a few risks to find the true purpose in your life. Just make sure you are in tune with your intuition while making these decisions. In the end there is no such thing as a failure, it's just an opportunity to learn.
It might take a few failed attempts and dead ends before you finally hit upon the true purpose of your life. You are likely to make fewer mistakes if you are in touch with your inner voice of intuition. Always remember that the emotion you feel in your body is the true indicator of what you really feel about your decisions rather than the thoughts in your mind.
跟着直覺走？無論何時你直覺要做什麼事，就跟着做。有時冒些險來尋找人生的真正目標是很重要的。只是要確定在做出這些決定時要與你的直覺協調一致。到最後不會有失敗這回事，這只是一個學習的機會。
可能要經過幾次失敗的嘗試和困境，你才能最終偶然發現你人生的真正目標。如果你感知直覺的內在聲音，你或許會少犯些錯誤。永遠記住你身體感覺到的情感才能正確地指出你對自己決定的真實感受，而不是你頭腦中的想法。

How to start? First, think about what you’d like people to say about you at your funeral. This comes from Stephen Covey’s 7 Habits of Highly Effective People — the habit called “Begin with the end in mind.” It’s also very effective. Imagine you are at the end of your life, looking back. What would you like to have accomplished? What kind of person would you like to have been?
怎樣開始？首先，想象一下在你的葬禮上，你希望自己喜歡的人們會怎樣評你。這是來自於史蒂芬柯維的高效之人的七個習慣，這個習慣被稱作“以結束開始的思想”。它非常有效。想象一下，在自己生命的結束回顧過去。你希望已經完成了什麼？你希望那時自己是什麼樣的人？

Now that you’ve given that a little thought, jot down some ideas for life goals you’d like to achieve before you die.
They can be in many areas, but here are a few to start with: professional, education, family, spiritual, travel, recreation, hobbies, community, charity. You can probably think of more, and you don’t need to have goals in all of these areas. Just some topics to get you started.
現在你已經有了一些想法，記下這些你死之前想要完成的人生目標。
它們可能會包含很多領域，但只有一些個供選擇的開始：
職業、教育、家庭、信仰、旅行、娛樂、愛好、社團、慈善。你可能會想的更多，但你不需要在所有這些領域裏都用有目標。只是一些讓你開始的話題。

Refine your list, or expand it. After your initial brainstorm, you may want to trim it down. But you may also want to expand: sometimes it’s fun, and worthwhile, to dream big.
精練你的清單，要擴展它。
在你最初的靈光一現後，你可能會想修改它們。但你也可能會想擴展他們：
有時這是娛樂，是價值，或是一個大夢想。

Now break it down. What should you accomplish in the next 10 years for each of these goals? How about 5 years? How about two years? One year? And this month?
Once you’ve planned out each goal for 10-year, 5-year, 2-year, 1-year and 1-month periods, you’ve got yourself a pretty solid plan.
現在繼續詳細解釋。對於這些目標你10年後應該完成什麼？5年怎麼樣？2年呢？1年？這個月？
一旦你計劃好每個目標在10年，5年，2年，1年，一個月內要完成什麼，那麼你已經得到了自己一份相當可靠的計劃了。

Take action! I like to take my monthly goals, and make a to-do list for this week. What can I do today to further my goals? And if I can get just one thing done, I’ve done a lot to make those dreams a reality!
行動起來！我想從自己的每月目標開始，制定一份這周想要做什麼的清單。對於我將來的目標，今天能做些什麼？設想我能完成一件事，其實那已經對於實現那些夢想做了很多了。（翻譯：譯言網）