留意! 專家稱這三類人最容易出軌!

Can you tell from the outset whether a husband, wife or partner is likely to be unfaithful to you?

你能從一開始就知道丈夫、妻子或伴侶是否可能對你不忠嗎？

It's impossible to predict individual cases – but there are three types of person who are more likely to go behind their partner's back, according to author Matthew Hussey.

根據作者馬修·赫西的說法，要預測個人情況是不可能的，但是有三種人更容易會背叛自己的伴侶。

Hussey, author of How to Get the Guy and Get the Girl, says, that narcissists, insecure people and selfish people are the most likely to cheat.

《如何找到男友和女友》一書的作者赫西稱，自戀的人、缺乏安全感的人和自私的人最有可能出軌。

Hussey says, 'For the narcissist it's all about proving how lovable they are. They'll only feel validated when someone else flirts with them, sleeps with them, or kisses them.'

赫西表示：“對於自戀者來說，他們人生最重要的事情就是爲了證明他們是多麼的可愛。只有當別人和他們調情、和他們睡覺或者親吻他們時，他們纔會感到被認可。”

But Hussey says that insecurity – and neediness – can also be a warning sign.

但赫西稱，其實不安全感和過分需求也可能是危險信號。

'Insecure people are something to be careful of. And I don't mean a basic level of insecurity that we all have, because we all have our own self-doubts and worries about ourselves. But when someone is so deeply insecure that if you don't give them love today, they're going to find it somewhere else — that's dangerous.'

“缺乏安全感的人是要小心的。當然我說的缺乏安全感，不是我們大多數人共有的那種初級程度，每個人都有自我懷疑和擔憂的時候。但是當一個人完全喪失安全感時，如果你今天沒有給他足夠的愛，他明天就會在別的地方尋求別人的愛--這就危險了。”

Hussey says that the third kind of person likely to cheat is simply selfish people – those who put their own needs above their partner's.

赫西表示，第三種可能出軌的人是自私的人--那些把自己的需求看得比伴侶的重的人。

Hussey says, 'They know if they cheat their partner would hate it or be traumatised by it, but their own selfish needs just take over.'

赫西說：“他們知道，如果他們出軌了，他們的伴侶會很生氣或者受到傷害，但他們自己的自私需求最終還是佔據了上風。”