第一次約會時,男生們想問但卻沒有問的問題
1. What is your family actually like? This one likely won't come into play for a few months, but if things get serious, it's nice to know who he'll be dealing with. A parent who will mock your career choice no matter how many promotions you get? Is there a black sheep in the family? Are you the black sheep?
1. 你家裏的真實情況是怎樣的？可能交往幾個月之後你們纔會談到這個問題，但如果他很認真，那麼知道他將面對什麼人會很好。不管你升了多少等級，你的父母還是想扼殺你對事業的選擇？你家裏有沒有害羣之馬？你是不是就是害羣之馬？
2. Why did you actually decide to go out with me? To borrow from Groucho Marx's famous quote, would you want to date anyone willing to go out with you? Did you feel bad for him and this is just a pity date? Did you think he's hot? Was it that he makes you laugh? It's nice to know how he somehow managed to snag this date.
2. 你想和我約會的真實原因是什麼？在此，我引用格勞橋•馬克思的名言：你想要與願意與你出來玩的任何人約會嗎？你是不是很同情他，這只是次同情約會呢？你覺得他性感嗎？是因爲他能逗你開心嗎？知道他是如何搞定這次約會對他來說是件好事。
3. Do you have any terrible friends? This might not be a deal breaker, but it's nice to have a heads up. Sometimes great people have awful friends. At least if he knows in advance, he can plan a defensive strategy in advance.
3. 你有沒有很糟糕的朋友？這可能不是件煞風景的事兒，但留點兒神總是好的。有時候好人卻有壞朋友。至少如果他提前知道的話，他就能提前籌劃好防禦策略了。
4. Are we going to kiss tonight? All right that was too polite. If you just tell him flat-out, he'll probably be way less nervous and awkward throughout the date. Probably.
4. 今晚我能親一下你嗎？好吧，這太禮貌了。如果你直截了當的告訴他，也許約會時他就不會這麼緊張、尷尬了。這也只是可能哦。
5. How many of your exes did you break up with? This one could be a serious red flag. Either you've got terrible taste in guys and don't realize it until it's too late, or you get bored of people eventually. Is he really going to be the one to finally break the streak and settle down with you? Probably not. Maybe he's willing to try, but it's nice to know the odds in advance.
5. 你有過多少前任？這可能是個十分危險的信號。要麼就是你看男人的眼光太低，直到太晚才意識到，要麼就是你最終會厭倦男人。他會不會是打破紀錄最終與你共度餘生的人呢？也許不是。也許他是願意嘗試的，但提前知道機率會更好。
6. Are you looking for anything serious or do you just want to hook up? This information is crucial. It's all too easy for a guy to come on too strong because he thinks that's what you want. Then he scares you off because all you wanted was sex, but that's also all he wanted anyway. So basically, it'd be nice if there were a polite way to ask you just how hard he should be trying.
6. 你是認真的，還是隻是玩玩而已？這一信息至關重要。男人很容易就會態度強硬，因爲他以爲這是你想要的。然後他又會把你嚇走，因爲你想要的只是性，雖然這也是他想要的。所以基本上來說，如果能禮貌的問你他應該付出多大的努力對他來說再好不過了。
