時尚雙語:把自己打造完美女友只需八步

Being the Perfect Girlfriend can be quite a challenge. But with patience, It might JUST BE possible. Here are some tips to get you on your way.

Step1

YOU MUST RELAX YOUR STANDARDS. Let down your guard, and don't let etiquette be most important. This means eating like a pig (occasionally), burping, etc. Although things should be cleaned up in the end, the experience will allow you to feel comfortable with each other. That's the first important step.

Step2

DRESS UP SOMETIMES TO FEEL SPECIAL. This obviously is the opposite of step 1. Feel comfortable with each other, but don't get lazy. Dress up, and put effort into it. Look sexy for your man. He will definitely appreciate your effort, feel more attractive, and possibly want to return the gesture by putting more effort towards his appearance as well.

Step3

BE SENSITIVE OF YOUR MAN'S EGO. Although men will seem strong, our ego's can sometimes be delicate. Make your boyfriend feel good about himself through genuine compliments. Let him know you're aware of his efforts to improve certain relationship issues. And most importantly of all, communicate an idea; don't NAG about it.

Step4

ALLOW SPACE. A relationship is important. But so are his friends. He loves you but there are just some things that a friendship with the guys gives to him. So communicate to reach an appropriate agreement, and give him the space to balance out his relationship and friendships.

Step5

LISTEN. Men love to explain things. Sometimes even if you don't understand it all, try to keep an open mind. After all, he should be doing the same for you. These incidents shouldn't last too long, and he will be very grateful that you care enough to hear him completely.

Step6

THE WAY TO A MAN'S HEART IS THROUGH HIS BELLY. Good food is definitely a plus to becoming the perfect girlfriend. So try to make an effort to having a few good recipes. And if you don't know how to cook yet? Have a list of takeout places handy for just such an occasion. It's important because if we get hungry, we pay less attention to you (sorry in advance). So if you prevent us from getting hungry, our attention will be more focused on YOU. (which should be because you're almost the perfect girlfriend)

Step7

OVERTIME STEP: (NOT FOR EVERYONE). Bedroom Etiquette. Be mindful that a man's horny level is always around the same point as a woman's maximum horny point during period week. So now that you understand how we are, be gentle. If you aren't in the mood, gently let your man know IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH HIM (remember that ego). TIP: If you are not prepared for that stage of the relationship yet for whatever reason (religion, age, culture, etc), do not feel pressured to give in. He should/must respect your values.

Step8

Congratulations, You've completed the steps. You are (according to my books) the Perfect Girlfriend. Great job!

成爲一個完美女友也許是一個相當有難度的挑戰。但是，只有有耐心，就有可能成功。這裏有一些幫助你成功的方法。

第一步

你必須放寬你的標準。解除你的武裝，不要把禮儀當做最重要的事。這意味着偶爾像豬一樣進食、打嗝等等。雖然時候要清理乾淨，但那種感覺可以讓彼此感到舒適。 這就是第一個重要步驟。

第二步

偶爾精心打扮來讓自己與衆不同。這顯然與第一步相反，讓兩人感到彼此舒適，但不要因此而懶惰。打扮，並且認真準備。爲你的男人打扮得性感一些。他一定會感激你的努力，覺得你更加迷人，他很有可能會爲了回報而在自己的外表上投入更多精力。

第三步

隨時注意他的自尊。雖然男人看起來很強壯，他們的自尊有時會很脆弱。通過真誠的讚美來使你的男友對自己感覺良好。讓他了解你知道他的努力來使你們的關係更進一步。最重要的是，交流各自的想法，避免挑剔批評。

第四步

爲彼此留出空間。雖然你們的關係很重要，但他和朋友的關係也同樣重要。他愛你，但有些東西是隻有朋友能給予的。因此，通過溝通來達成適當的協定，給他空間，讓他平衡愛情和友情。

第五步

傾聽。男人們熱衷於解釋事物。有時即使你並不完全明白這一切，儘量保持開放的心態。畢竟他也會爲你做同樣的事。這些小插曲不會持續太久，他將對你足夠用心的傾聽感激不已。

第六步

抓住男人的胃就能抓住男人的心。美味的食物絕對是成爲完美女友的加分。所以，嘗試努力擁有幾個拿手好菜。如果你不懂烹飪怎麼辦？那麼，爲這樣的場合準備幾個外出就餐的好地方。這很重要，因爲一旦我們餓了，就會減少對你的注意（事先說一句抱歉）。因此，如果你能阻止我們的飢餓，我們的注意力將會更加集中在你身上。（誰讓你幾乎是完美的女友呢）

第七步

附加的一步（不是每個人都適用）。臥室禮儀。需要注意的是，男人的高潮總是在女人達到高潮的前後到來。既然你已經瞭解了我們的節奏，溫柔一些。如果你不在狀態，委婉地告訴你的男人，那不是他的原因（記住他的自尊）。小貼士：無論出於何種原因（宗教，年齡，文化，等等）如果你還沒有爲你們的這一層關係準備好，不要因爲有壓力就讓步。他應該並且必須尊重你的價值觀。

第八步

恭喜，你已經完成了所以的步驟。你已經成爲完美女友了（根據我的書）。太棒了！