雙語達人:吵架時如何緩和氣氛
吵架的時候雙方情緒都很激動,這個時候如果能夠說幾句“軟話”緩和一下氣氛,那麼矛盾可能就不會那麼激烈了。俗話說“退一步海闊天空”麼。
1. Please try to understand my point of view.
1. 請理解我的觀點。2. Wait, can I take that back?
2. 等一下,我能收回我說的話嗎?3. This is important to me. Please listen.
3. 這對我很重要。請仔細聽。
4. I overreacted.
4. 我反應過激了。5. I see you're in a tough position.
5. 我知道你的處境艱難。6. I can see my part in this.
6. 這個問題,我有錯。7. I hadn't thought of it that way before.
7. 我以前沒有這樣想過。8. I could be wrong.
8. 我可能是錯的。9. Let's agree to disagree on that.
9. 讓我們接受我們的不同觀點。10. This isn't just your problem; it's our problem.
10. 這不只是你的問題。這是我們的問題。11. I'm feeling unappreciated.
11. 我感覺沒有受到重視。12. We're getting off the subject.
12. 我們跑題了。13. I know I need to listen more.
13. 我知道,我應該多傾聽。14. You've convinced me.
14. 我已經被你說服了。15. Let's take a break for a few minutes.
15. 我們停一會吧。16. I realize it's not your fault.
16. 我意識到這不是你的錯。17. That came out all wrong.
17. 我表達錯了。18. I see how I contributed to the problem.
18. 我明白是我引發了這個問題。19. What are we really fighting about?
19. 我們到底在爭什麼呢?20. How can I make things better?
20. 我怎樣才能把事情變得更好呢?