關於幸福的最普遍的5個謬論
1. Money makes you happy
1.錢讓你更幸福It is undeniable that money can give you a short-term feeling of happiness that flies away very fast. We shouldn’t forget that money is not the key to happiness. If to think wider we realize that money cannot substitute family, friends or hobbies. No matter how rich you are, if you feel yourself miserable you are not happy. The only sign proving your happiness is a frank smile on your face.
錢可以給你短暫且流逝很快的幸福感覺，這是無可厚非的。我們不應該忘記幸福並不是幸福的關鍵。如果想的更寬一點的話，我們會意識到錢不能替代家人，朋友或者興趣愛好。無論你多麼富有，如果你感覺自己很糟糕的話，你也不會幸福的。證明你的幸福的唯一標誌就是臉上坦然的微笑。2. Happiness in your head/mind
2.幸福在你的腦海中
What is happiness? Does it really exist? Some people find happiness as a temporary emotion, while others treat it as a state of being. By the way, experts point out that happiness as a feeling is as powerful as a depression. It’s up to you what state of being prevails in your head.
幸福是什麼？幸福真的存在嗎？一些人發現幸福只是短暫的一端感情，然而其他人認爲幸福是一種存在狀態。順便說一下，專家指出幸福是一種與抑鬱同樣強勢的一種感覺。你腦中的存在狀態，取決於你自己。
3. Don’t compromise
3.不要妥協
It turned out that people treat compromises as a kind of a loss and think that such barrier can lead to unhappiness, but others do not agree. Happy people are less irritable and often allow small compromises handle the situation. Remember that quarrels just kill the nerves. There is no doubt that your hard-edged character won’t make you feel happy.
事實證明，人們總是將妥協退讓當作是一種失敗，認爲這種障礙會導致不幸福，但是其他人並不這樣認爲。幸福的人不那麼容易憤怒，總是通過小小的妥協來處理好某事。記住，吵架只是一種殺傷神經的做法。毫無疑問，你鋒芒畢露的性格不會讓你感到幸福。4. Don’t be too happy
4.不要太開心This myth is really a contradictory thing. It’s absolutely normal to express your emotions, smile, joke and share your positive mood with people around. There is no certain definition to it and no one knows what is to be happy. Frankly speaking, people don’t mind how happy you are.
這一謬論實際上是自相矛盾的。表達你的感情，微笑，笑話，與周圍的人分享積極的情緒，絕對是正常的。幸福沒有確切的定義，沒有人知道到底什麼是幸福。直截了當地說，人們並不在意你到底有多幸福。5. Based on progress
5.以進步爲根據Almost everyone admits that happiness is based on a goal. We often promise ourselves to become happy when we succeed in something. As a result, we feel miserable in a way until we reach the goal. Moreover, we can easily set ourselves for failure if we base happiness on achieving goals. It is proved that you will succeed faster if you feel yourself happy.
幾乎所有人都承認幸福是以目標爲基礎的。我們總是對自己承諾說，當我們成功做到某事的時候，要幸福。結果，直到我們實現目標的時候，我們還是感覺很糟糕。而且，如果我們將幸福建立在實現目標的基礎上，我們很容易陷入失敗的困局。事實證明，如果你感覺自己幸福的話，你會成功地更快。
