如何應對壓力 How to Cope with Stress

 With the development of society, the competition of the entire society is more and more intense, causing increasing pressure to people. Stress of study, work and life are ubiquitous, but how can we deal with it? Here are some tips that I hope can be useful.

隨着社會的發展，全社會的競爭越來越激烈，給人們帶來了越來越多的壓力。學習，工作，生活上的壓力是最普遍的，但是我們怎樣才能應對它？以下是幾點建議，希望對大家有用。

Firstly, keep good health. A healthy body is the premise to face presure. It’s the least capacity to cope with stress when a person is sick. Secondly, to accept the pressure. The reason why many people can not cope with stress is that they resist and escape it. Actually, there always is trouble and problems once we chose a path to go, because almost everything worth doing is not so easy. Thirdly, solve the problem, rather than complain about it. Many people complain about the surroundings and don’t think about the solutions when faced with problems. We all know that complaint can do nothing but only let you down. As long as the problem not solved, the pressure is always there. Fourthly, tell others your pressure and get help from them. Lots of pressure can’t be solved by our own and the rational way is talking the pressure to workmates or friends to get help from them. But the premise to do so is that we don’t intend to put pressure to others but to seek help and support to solve problems.

首先，保持健康。健康的體魄是面對壓力的前提。當一個人生病的時候，應對壓力的能力是最小的。其次，接受壓力。人們不能夠應對壓力是因爲他們抵抗和逃避壓力。實際上，一旦我們選擇了要走的路，總是會有麻煩和問題，因爲幾乎每一件值得做的是都不是那麼容易的。再次，解決問題，而不是抱怨它。的那個面對問題的時候，很多人抱怨環境而不思考解決方法。我們都知道抱怨什麼都解決不了，只會讓你失望。只要問題沒有解決，壓力就一直在那裏。最後，告訴別人你的壓力，向別人尋求幫助。很多壓力靠自己是解決不了的，理智的方法是向同事或者朋友傾訴，從他們那裏得到幫助。但是這樣做的前提是我們不是故意給別人壓力，而是尋求幫助和支持以解決問題。

Of course, there also are some other ways to cope with stress, such as readjusting goal and expectation, playing games to relax, even shopping or eating. But no matter how, solving the problem that causes stress is the best way. 

當然，還有其他應對壓力的方法，比如重新調整目標和期望，玩遊戲放鬆，甚至是購物或者吃東西。打那時不管怎樣，解決引起壓力的問題是最好的方法。