屌絲福利:揭祕十大"必勝約會"祕訣
Pay for everything. Don't mention splitting the the lady suggests paying part of the bill, do not accept theoffer. If she insists, allow her to pay what she wishes (this isnot just a rule for dating).
搶着買下所有的單。絕對不要提AA這檔子事。如果女方主動提議給一部分錢，你可以完全忽略她的建議。如果她堅持要這樣做的話，那就讓她隨便給點吧。tion
2.地點問題
No movies on the first date. How can you get to knoweach other if you spend the majority of the time insilence? I would recommend taking yourdate out for dinner (no lunch dates on the first date either). Takeher somewhere you feel comfortable and somewhere you can easilyafford. You don't want to be nervous all through the date that youmight get stuck with a crippling bill. If price is a bigconcern for you, you canorganize your own datein a public place (like a park or even at your own home) andprepare the meal yourself. If you can't cook, takeaways are fine,but serve it on plates at the table and try to make aneffort.
第一次約會絕對不要去看電影。如果約會的絕大部分時間你們都沉默着，你們怎麼增進之間的瞭解呢？我會建議你帶着她出去吃頓飯(也不要一起去吃午飯)。帶她去一個你感覺很舒服同時也不太貴的地方那是最好了。這樣你就不會因爲一直擔心那恐怖的賬單而一直惴惴不安了。如果價錢問題很嚴重的話，你可以將你們的約會安排到一個公共的地方(像一個公園，或者你家也行)同時自備食物。如果你自己不會弄飯的話，外賣也是可以的，但一定要盡力用盤子盛食物並且放在桌子上。I would also suggest that you not go too overboardwith the first date. Keep it simple and moderately priced. You canget extravagant onsubsequent dates if things go well.
我還要建議你不用對第一次約會太全身心的投入了。保持簡單和適度的價格。如果一切進展順利的話，你會在接下來的約會中變得過度浪費。ers
3.方式問題First off, if you are going to dinner, read the Rulesfor Fine Dining list; try to remember at least one or two. When youpick up your date, get out of the car and hold the door open forher. Do the same when you are letting her out of the car. If youare dining out for your first date, hold the chair out for yourdate and help her sit.
當你去接她時，停下車後立刻下車爲她把門打開。在他下車的時候也需要這樣做。如果你在第一次約會的時候外出吃飯，一定要幫他拉椅子幫她入座。Don't be late.
還有一點，絕對不要遲到了哦~ect
4.尊重她That means not to expect anything in return! A date isnot payment for futurepleasures, it is a way to get to know someone to gauge compatibility. This rulealso means you should not try to get your date drunk, drugged, orcompromised in any other way. At the end of the date you can offera small kiss – offer nothing else and expecting nothingback.
這意味着不要期盼有任何的回報！一次約會絕對不是對未來歡樂時光的投資，而是一種更全面跟透徹瞭解一個人的方法。這也意味着你絕對不能把你的約會對象灌醉，和她一起嗑藥或着以任何方式傷害她。在約會的最後你可以嘗試一個淺淺的吻——不用提供什麼其他的東西同時也不要期盼有什麼回報。idence
5.自信Be confident and takecharge of the evening. This does not mean you should dragyour date around by the arm; be firm with your suggestions and beconfident that you will have a good date and make a good impression – remember,if you were a total loser you wouldn't be on the date in the firstplace.
自信一點並掌管一切的事情。這不是叫你拉着她的手臂到處走，而是要顯得對自己的建議有信心，堅信你們能享受一個非常愉快的約會而且你會給她留下一個非常好的印象。記住，如果你是一個徹底的失敗者的話，你根本就沒有機會和她同一個桌子。ming
6.裝扮問題Dress appropriately for your date, and you shouldprobably let your date know where you are planning to take her inadvance so she can also dress appropriately. If you are going tothe beach for a seaside dinner, dress nicely (no jeans) but don'toverdress. Similarly, if you are going to a fancy restaurant, weara shirt and tie. Make sure yourshoes are clean and polished ifnecessary.
爲你的約會合理打扮一下，你也應該提前讓她知道你們的約會是去哪，這樣她才知道應該怎麼穿衣服。如果你們要去海灘享受海邊晚餐，穿漂亮點穿少點(別穿牛仔褲)。相同的，如果你們要去一家高檔次的酒店，一定要穿T恤打領帶。記住整乾淨你的鞋，必要的時候擦一擦。Shower. e. If you havecologne, wear a little but not too much.
洗澡，用好點的洗髮水。如果你用古龍水的話，也可以適量的噴一點。ersation
7.談話主題Do not focus on yourself duringthe evening – ask your date questions about herself (this works inall social situations)en to the replies too and don't just look for an opening tostart discussing yourself. Do not talk about your job for more thana few minutes – while our ownwork is a fascinating subject forus, it is seldom fascinating for someone else. Be sure to compliment your date –but don't go overboard – you will seem desperate.
不要在整個晚上都專注於自己的問題——要問關於她的問題(這在所有的社交場景都有效)。同時要認真聽取他的會話不要只是爲討論自己開個頭。不要談論你自己的工作太長時間——可能你的工作隊我們來說非常吸引人，但是很難能吸引到其他人。慶祝恭維一下你們的約會——但也不要顯得太過頭了——那你就顯得太過飢渴。Do not ever talk about dates you have had with otherpeople or your ex-girlfriends.
絕對不要提起你和其他人，或者是你前女朋友的約會。ng
8.時間問題Don't let your date last too long. Think of it like agood meal – you should finish your plate feeling like you want justa little more. This is the best time to finish a date. This alsomeans that you should not plan for the date to be too far from homeotherwise the travel can ruin things.
不要讓你的約會持續太長時間。把約會想想成一頓晚飯——一頓好的飯是你吃完自己的之後感覺還差那麼一點的。而這也正是結束一次約會的最佳時刻。這也意味着你不能把你的約會安排在離家太遠的地方，否則的話旅途漫長會毀掉所有的事情。9.Gifts
9.禮物問題It can be a very nice idea to give your date a smallgift on the first date. Don't go crazy on something expensive –just a nice little token like a single rose is fine. Keep in mindwhere you are going and how you plan to get there so your date doesnot end up being lumbered with something that she has to carryaround all night. Oh – and don't pick the rose from your datesgarden – buy one.
給她帶去一個小禮物當然是個好主意。但是千萬別瘋着去買啥昂貴的禮品——一個小巧的指環一直玫瑰都還不錯。要綜合考慮你們是要去哪，怎樣去，別讓她在整個旅途中都需要帶着一個東西。還有還有，千萬別是在約會地旁邊的花園摘一株玫瑰，去花店買吧。lusion
10.結論If you enjoyed your time with your date and would liketo see her again, call her and tell her so. Don't wait too long(and definitely don't play hard to get). Be completely ng said that, if you had an awful time, you should still behonest (though not brutal). There is nopoint in leading someone on – it will end up badly for both ofyou.
如果你和她在一起的時候很享受還想在見她一次，打電話告訴她吧。別等太長時間了(趁熱打鐵)。一定要老實的告訴她你有多麼想她。如果不是的話，也要誠實的告訴她，必竟沒必要騙別人——這對兩個人都不好。
