他的優柔寡斷正在偷取你的生命
Indecisiveness can drive a lot of people crazy during relationships. Being hesitant or unable to make a resolute offering about where to go to dinner, what movie to watch, or even where to go puts a strain on even the most enamored of lovers.
在談戀愛的時候，優柔寡斷往往會把許多人逼瘋。猶豫不決或者不能做出決定去哪兒吃飯，看什麼電影，甚至不知道去哪兒，這會讓那些熱戀的人們都感到很緊張。you.might find yourself completely in love with your man but flustered too. You ask yourself: Why hasn’t he proposed to me yet? Turns out, his indecision about marriage might be worse for you and your relationship than originally planned.
你或許發現自己完全愛上了一個男人，但是也很慌張無措。你問自己：爲什麼他還不向我求婚？事實證明，他的優柔寡斷或許會對你和你們的關係造成更壞的影響，比之前預計的還要糟糕。Everything else is good
其他一切都好
Looking at what makes a decent relationship – communication, laughter, selflessness, and compassion – you might have all the boxes checked off. You two can practically talk about anything, except for marriage, and he is willing to listen and offer constructive ideas.
看一下如何體面的相處——溝通，歡笑，忘我，以及同情——你可以按照這幾點，自查一下你們的關係。你們雙方實際上可以談論任何事情，除了婚姻，他願意聽你的想法，或者給出建設性的意見。You laugh together, and when apart you laugh at memories. The two of you would rather spend the day together in PJs in front of Netflix, having a personal pizza party, than “date.” You are living a quasi-married life.
你們一起歡笑，而且當你們分開的時候，你會一邊回憶一邊笑。你們兩個也習慣於穿着睡衣看網飛公司的電影，開一個私人的披薩派對，而不是“約會”。你們過着類似婚後的生活。So why is the proposal still just an idea? Does he dodge the question when you ask him about marriage-related topics? How does he react? Is it passive-aggressive?
那麼爲什麼求婚還一直只是個想法呢？當你問他婚姻相關的話題的時候，他會逃避問題嗎？他的反應如何？反應很消極嗎？Get to the root of the problem
找到問題的根源Because something is wrong. Not deciding on anything might be a common practice of his out of fear of conflict with you. Yes, disagreeing with the person you love can be a totally horrific experience, especially when it results in a drawn-out altercation.
因爲出了問題。對任何事情都不做出決定，通常或許是因爲他害怕與你對立。是的，不同意你所愛之人的想法可能是非常恐怖的事情，尤其是當不同意引發長期的爭執。When it comes to the passive-aggressive individual, the inability or even the selfish need to protect themselves from potential rejection on any level becomes a safety blanket. No concrete answers or situations means that neither negatives nor positives can happen.
當提到消極攻擊性的惡人的時候，無能甚至自私需要保護他們自己免受潛在的任何形式的拒絕，這成了他們的保護毯。沒有具體的答案或者情況，意味着消極或者積極的結果都不會發生。
