學會放棄 Learn to Give Up

When we encourage people, we will always tell them not to give up, they can be successful if they insist. “Never give up” have been the inspiring words, people accept them as the positive life attitude. However, sometimes if people insist all the time and never change, these inspiring words are not wise to keep.

當我們鼓勵人們，我們總會告訴他們不要放棄，如果堅持下去，就能成功。“不要放棄”已經成爲了鼓勵用詞，人們接受它們，把這當做樂觀的生活態度。然而，有時候，如果人們一直堅持，不作出改變，堅持這些勵志的詞語就不明智了。

People should learn to give up sometimes. Parents think study is very important, so they ask their kids to insist to learn and go to college. But the fact is that not all the kids are good at study, some kids are not interested in study, they are good at other things. Parents should not push their children to go to college, the kids can learn the things they are good at, like cooking, amending cars and so on. Going to college is not the only way to be successful, learning the practical skills also makes them successful. 

有時候人們應該學着去放棄。父母認爲學習是很重要的，因此他們要求孩子堅持學習，直到上大學。但是事實上，並不是所有的孩子擅長學習，一些孩子對學習不感興趣，他們擅長別的東西。父母不應該逼迫孩子上大學，孩子可以學習他們擅長的東西，比如烹飪，修汽車等等。上大學並不是成功的唯一出路，學會使用的技巧同樣也能成功。

People must know clearly what they are insisting, if they keep the right direction, they should insist, but if they keep the wrong direction, they need to give up and open another new chapter of their lives.
人們必須清楚知道他們堅持的是什麼，如果他們保持的是對的方向，他們應該堅持下去，但是如果他們走的是錯誤的方向，他們需要放棄，展開人生的新篇章。