過度關愛對孩子不利Too Much Care Can be Harmful to Children

Nowadays, in China, more and more familyonly have one child because of the one child policy. Parents are taking moreattention to their children than before. With the economic condition isbecoming better, parents are tend to put the best things for their children,they want them to receive the best education, hope them will be able to becomethe useful gift of country and society. However, i think too much care can beharmful to children.

現在在中國，越來越多的家庭因爲獨生政策而只有一個孩子。父母比以前更加重視孩子了。隨着經濟條件變好，父母喜歡把最好的給他們的孩子，他們想要孩子們接受到最好的教育，希望他們以後能成爲對國家和社會有用的人。然而，我認爲太多的關愛會對孩子不利。

In the first place, i would like to take anexample to support my opinion. A father who recently be admitted to the sameuniversity with his daughter, he said he accompanied his daughter to studytogether since she was in middle school, and now they are going to the sameuniversity, which makes the father very happy. On contrary, his daughter seemsnot that delight, she said she had already got tired of her father’s companion,she wants freedom and independent.

第一，我想舉個例子來證明我的觀點。有位父親最近和他的女兒被同一所大學錄取，他說他從女兒初中開始就一直陪讀，現在他們要進同一所大學了，這讓父親非常高興。相反的，他的女兒看起來不怎麼開心，她說她已經厭倦了父親的陪伴，她想要自由和獨立。

In the second place, parents like to maketheir children signed up for a lots after-school program, they think the moreskills their children know the more useful for their growth. Children have totake art, English, piano after school. According to the overload situation,children already have too much homework to do after school; the interestedclass makes them have less time to relax themselves. They might haveshort-sightedness or depressed.

第二，父母喜歡給他們的孩子報各種興趣班，他們覺得孩子懂的技能越多，對他們的成長越有用。孩子必須在放學後去學美術，英語和鋼琴。根據現在作業超負荷的現狀，孩子在課後已經有很多家庭作業了，興趣班讓他們更加沒有時間去放鬆自己。他們可能會得近視眼，或者抑鬱症。

In a word, even though the parents thoughtit is good for their children, but they have to consider how much pressure thatthe children can suffer. The best for children is to let them chose what theyreally want and give them some personal space.

總而言之，儘管父母認爲那些是對孩子有益的，但是他們應該考慮一下孩子能承受多少的壓力。最好就是讓孩子選他們真正想學的，還有給他們點私人空間。