時尚雙語:中國女人與美國女人的12大不同

Chinese women are beautiful. So are American ones. Actually, all women are beautiful. However,the way to express beauty is quite different due to the disparity of culture and national conditions.

1. Chinese women are more hardworking than American women whether in manual work or brainwork. Chinese women work far more toughly than American women and they show a stronger power of will.

2. Chinese women are more willing to bear the burden of hard work. The American women prefer complaining, while the Chinese ones, especially those women who live in the rural areas, are more contained with few complains when treated unfairly.

3. Chinese women are more tolerant to their husbans compared with their Ameircan counterparts. Few wives in China will divorce with their husbands who have love affairs with other women, while, to American wives, cheating is absolutely intolerant and divorce is the only solution.

4. Chinese women believe more in fate than American women, especially when their husbands cheat on them。On this occasion, they first blame all to their unlucky fate. Comparatively. the Americans first prefer to find a good lawyer ,who can bring them more possession in the divorce, with the slightest idea of complaining their poor destiny.

5. Compared with the American female, Chinese female lay much emphasis on their husbands. However, the Americans, male or female, value their own freedom and happiness most. Female will never love boyfriends more than themselves. In this term, Chinese women are quite opposite--they love their husband far more than themselves. According to a report released last week, China ranks the first in terms of female suicide, however, it is not the first in pure suicide. Just think about the large population of China, you will find the figure even more terrible. Thousands of female in China (most live in rural areas) feel desperate and then commit suicide every year just because their husbands leave them.

6. In the eye of Chinese women, a job means working outside. Oppositely, American female regard housework as important as working outside; sometimes, they think working outside is harder, more valuable to their family.

7. Loving period for Chinese women is shorter than that for the American women.
An American woman can fall in love with a man in their tens and keep such kind of enthusiasm till they get old. While Chinese women can only last from their tens to thirties.

8. Chinese women will face huge pressure from society and family if they haven't got married when they are over twenty. For American women, this kind of pressure is nowhere to find. No matter how old they are, they always have pursuers. Chinese women seldom have pursuers when they get old.

9. Chinese women like making up when they are young, but give up make-up when they get old. American women make up more when they are old.

10. Chinese women adore men, especially those who have a less education background; while American women admire men.

11. Chinese women will devote all to men when they fall in love with them, mentally and phsically. American women love men and at the same time wait for responses.

12. Chinese female have a lower rate of love affairs than Chinese men. Even though i have no statistics, i can guess the gap is more than ten times, especially in the expansive rural areas. It is easy to find a man who has love affairs with other woman, whick is no more strange. However, it is a big event that a woman has a love affair with another man and the bad news runs faster. Finally, it can be a shame on the whole family. This rate in America even out according to statistics.

Although sex discrimination in America still exists and it is a long way for Ameircan female to pursue the equal treatment. Compared with Chinese women, American women indeed do less than their Chinese counterparts for their family and husbands.

中國女人很美麗，美國女人也很美麗，天下的女人都是美麗的。但由於中美兩國文化不同，國情不同，所以表現的方式亦不同。

1）中國女人比美國女人刻苦耐勞。無論是從事體力勞動，還是腦力勞動，中國女人遠比美國女人更能吃苦，具有更堅忍的毅力。

2）中國女人比美國女人任勞任怨。美國女人是很愛抱怨的一羣，而中國女人，特別是鄉下女人，哪怕是受到不公平的對待常常泰然處之，較少抱怨。

3）中國女人比美國女人更具寬容心，特別是對待丈夫。中國有多少在外面"包二奶""搞女人"的男人，他們的妻子又有多少爲此離婚的呢，比例並不高，而對於美國女人來說這是斷然無法容忍，沒得商量的事情，只有離婚一途。

4）中國女人比美國女人更相信命運。特別是在婚姻中遇到了負心漢，首先怪的是自己命苦，命運不好。而美國女人首先想到的是去找個好律師，力爭多分些財產，並不會有自己命不好的想法。

5）中國女人與美國女人相比，把男人看的很重。美國女人與美國男人一樣都是將個人的自由與幸福擺在首位，她們愛男人不會超過愛自己，而中國女人常常是愛丈夫超過了愛自己。據上星期剛剛得知的報道顯示，中國不是全世界自殺率最高的國家，卻竟是女性自殺率最高的國家，考慮到中國如此龐大的人口數量，就更是觸目驚心。每年都有成千上萬的女性（大部分是農村女性）由於丈夫的離去，從而對生活感到絕望而服毒自殺。

6）中國女人往往是隻將外出工作看做是工作，而不是像美國女人那樣將在家中專職做家務亦看做是與外出工作同樣重要的工作，甚至是更辛苦更有價值對家庭更大貢獻的工作。

7）中國女人的戀愛生命遠比美國女人爲短。美國女人可以從十多歲一直熱戀到老，而中國女人的熱戀時間往往只限於十多歲到三十出頭的短暫時間裏。

8）中國女人到了二十多歲不結婚就會面臨來自家庭與社會的巨大壓力，美國女人則完全沒有這種壓力，因爲無論多大年紀，總有追求者在那裏，而中國女人年紀一旦大了，就很難再有追求者了。

9）中國女人年輕時愛打扮，到老了就不愛打扮了。美國年輕女人愛打扮，但上了年紀後更加愛打扮。

10）中國女人對男人抱有一種崇拜的心理，特別是教育水準較低的女性。美國女人對男人則是抱着一種欣賞的態度。

11）中國女人對男人是既愛他，就什麼都一股腦的給他，從身體到精神。美國女人對男人則是一邊愛他，一邊看着他如何回報。

12）中國女人的婚外情比率遠比中國男人的婚外情比率爲低，我手頭上沒有統計資料，但我估計恐怕低十倍也不止。特別是在廣大農村地區，男人外面有女人的現象隨處可見，已是見怪不怪，而女人若是外面有了男人那還了得，"醜事傳千里"，甚至成爲整個家族的恥辱。美國女人的婚外情比率與美國男人相比，據統計數字顯示大體持平。

雖然美國社會中男女不平等的現象還普遍存在，美國女人在追求男女平等的道路上也還有很長的路要走，但與中國女人相比較，中國女人對社會對家庭對丈夫的付出確實要比美國女人多的太多了。