時尚雙語:異國戀:美國女人爲何對亞洲女人懷有成見？

Any man who has dated Asian girls who live in the United States, has witnessed the wrath, jealously and prejudice of American women towards Asian girls.

The stereotypical has some merit: American women can’t compete against the Asians sexuality, American women feel threatened and some American women simply think Asians are stealing their men. These all bear some truth.

If we frequent a typical American club, I have had my dates threaten by American women in the restroom. In time, Asian clubs sprung up in the United States. At an Asian club, American women are welcome. I have never seen an American lady being threatened by Asians in a typical Asian club. It just isn’t their nature. The crowds in these clubs are usually Asian girls and American men.

They met in the Philippines, got married, and came to the United States with their military husband. Consequently, you’ll meet Asian girls in clubs who are married. If you mingle with Asian girls that frequent the clubs for any length of time, you will eventually meet ladies who are unfaithful.

This unfaithfulness is how Filipina girls are branded as whores by American women. This doesn’t carry the same stigma for American women who may do the same. Hypocrisy is always evident when behaviors of the two cultures are compared.

Asian dating sites have sprung up all over the internet. Some of these sites try to exploit the Asians sexuality. However, there are many Asian girls who want to meet a sincere gentleman for a relationship.

As attractive as Asian girls may be, American men are also captivated by the Asians behavior towards men. A man’s dream of having a wife who wants to please him, appreciates his love and treasures his efforts in making a home seems to have been found by American men in the Asian culture.

You’ll hear American men call these values traditional values because at one time these were the values that held the American family together.

In turn, these men are happy, want to provide for their wife and have no desire to look elsewhere for this appreciation.

It’s chemistry that once prevailed many years ago in the United States and has been lost in the myriad of women rights in American society.

Why do Filipina women want to marry a foreigner from another country? I’m not going to argue the fact that these ladies want a better life. It’s probably true.

I will argue that most women, no matter the country, want to marry in to a better life. Again, it is the hypocrisy of which you are that makes a behavior negative or not. Most women, in the United States, need to look in a mirror before judging ladies from other cultures. Besides wanting a better life, most Asian ladies want better treatment.

Here in the United States, most men come to expect a lady isn’t required to serve him, to want to please him, and love him for who he is. When an Asian girl does, his appreciation is certain.

For an Asian lady, the man doesn’t have to be super rich or look like a movie star, just treat her well and show his love. It’s a merry-go-round with respect and love as its focal point. She wants to please him, he loves her for pleasing him, and she loves him for showing he appreciates her love and so on.

All the above words, statements and my observations have their exceptions. There is no doubt; there are bad men in every country. There is no doubt that some women only are in it for the money or to get a free pass to the United States.

If a few instances define the standards, then just getting a marriage license in the United States should have a warning imprinted in gold. No matter if a couple met through the internet or at the neighborhood church, you have your share of scandals and mistreatment.

The last culture of experts that needs to be giving advice about how to meet and marry a woman is the United States “is there any other country whose divorce rate is higher?

The Philippines and Far Eastern countries do not condone online dating sites. For that matter, it is against the law. I’m not going to quote their law here, but it has to do with moral issues. Again hypocrisy!

I started this article to comment on why a lot of American women despise Asian girls. Not all American women, but a lot. But the discrimination doesn’t stop there. It is evident in the media, politics and indeed in their own country.

The people, who are forgotten, are the couples themselves. Why not just ask them? If two people who found each other are happy, in love and want to be together, why the media and politician think does they know better. Take your hatred, your narrow minded views and negative publicity elsewhere and let us find love “even if we find it on the internet.

凡和亞洲女孩約會的美國男人，都目擊過美國女人眼裏的憤怒，這就是美國女人對亞洲女孩的嫉妒與偏見。

這種模式的優勢是：美國女人在性魅力方面無法與亞洲人匹配，美國女人感到恐慌，甚至一些人單純地認爲亞洲人在搶他們的男人。這些當然也有點道理。

如果我們時常出入美國俱樂部，亞洲女孩就可能會在衛生間被美國女人恐嚇，我女朋友就有過此經歷。與此同時，亞洲俱樂部在美國興起。在亞洲俱樂部，美國女人 也是受歡迎的，在亞洲俱樂部，我從來沒有見過一個美國女人被亞洲女孩恐嚇的現象。亞洲人的天性並不會這樣做。在這些俱樂部的人，通常都是些亞洲女孩和美國 男人。

他們在菲律賓相遇，並結婚了，然後與他們的丈夫來到美國。因此，在俱樂部你會碰到已婚的亞洲女人。如若你把亞洲女孩當作是那種經常出入酒吧的不良女人時，你可能最終會遇到一些不忠的女人。

正因爲不忠，菲律賓女孩被美國女人烙上娼妓的烙印。而如果這種情況發生在美國女人身上，她們便不必承受此罵名。 兩種行爲文化一對比，僞善就顯露出來了。

亞洲交友配對網站在整個網絡世界興起了。一些網站試着用亞洲女孩的性感來吸引點擊率。然而，確實存在一些亞洲女孩尋求一段真摯的感情。

亞洲女孩極具魅力，美國男人會被她們的行爲舉止而着迷。男人夢想着有一個妻子，她會想着如何取悅他，對他的愛和爲家所作的努力而感恩，而這些，他們只有在亞洲的文化中能夠感受得到。

你將聽到美國男人把這種價值觀稱爲傳統價值觀，因爲曾經一度，這種價值觀與美國家庭息息相關。

那時，這些男人很幸福，竭盡地滿足妻子需要的一切，也不曾有去別處尋求刺激的想法。

很多年前，男女間的化學反應曾經在美國風靡一時，但最終在美國消失，沒落在女權運動中。

爲什麼菲律賓女人想嫁給異國的人呢？對於“這些女人想過得好一些”之說，我不想去爭論這點。或許這是事實。我所要爭論的是，大多數女人，無論來自哪個國家 都想嫁出去，過更好的生活。其次，不論你是否把問題看得消極，你都是僞善的。在美國的大多數女人，在論斷其他國家的女士時需要先反省一下。除了想擁有更好 的生活外，大多數亞洲女士想要更好的待遇。

在美國，大多數男人並不指望有個女人可以服伺他，願意取悅他，並愛那個真實的他。但若一個亞洲女孩這麼做了，他欣賞她也就不足爲奇了。

對亞洲女孩來說，男人不需要太有錢或看起來像個影視明星，她們只希望他們能對她們好，能一直愛她們就夠了。它就像是以尊重與愛爲軸的旋轉木馬。她想取悅他，他愛她的取悅，並且她喜歡他向她展示自己的愛。。。

以上所有的話，所作的陳述與我的觀察都又例外的情況，這是毫無疑問的。每個國家都又壞人。不可否認，一些女人嫁到美國只是爲了錢或是拿到一張免費的綠卡。

如果幾個例子就對這些標準給出了定義，那麼在美國取得結婚執照本該有嚴重警告。不管一對夫婦是在網上認識的或是在附近的教會，這些醜聞和虐待，你也有份。

在“怎樣遇到一個女人，又怎樣跟她結婚”這個問題上，能給出建議的文化專家只是美國。“還有哪個國家離婚率比它高的呢？

菲律賓及遠東國家反對網上交友配對網站。因爲那樣是違反法律的。他們的法律在這我就不引證了，但它牽扯到道德的問題。再次又與僞善有關！

我着手寫這篇文章意在闡述爲什麼許多美國女人輕視亞洲女孩。我說的不是所有的美國女人，但確實有非常多。並卻這種歧視也不會消失。無論是媒體，政治等方面都表現得很明顯，確實是發生在他們自己的國家。

人啊，他們已然忘記，自己也是成對的。爲什麼不問問他們呢？如果兩個人覺得他們在一起能開心，並且相愛，希望在一起，爲什麼媒體和政治家覺得他們會比當事 人更瞭解呢。把你的敵意，狹隘的思想觀念和消極的公衆價值觀通通都收起來吧，讓我們找到真愛，即使是在網上尋求的愛。