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問自己十個問題幫你找到人生目標

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It’s OK if you don’t know why you are here or what you are suppose to be doing with your life. It can take years to find our true calling but if you can’t wait that long, here are some questions to help you get on the path to finding your life’s purpose.

問自己十個問題幫你找到人生目標

如果你不知道,你爲什麼來這兒,也不知道一生該做什麼?這不要緊的。因爲這些問題的答案是要我們花費很多年去尋覓的。但是如果你不想在漫長的時光中等待,這裏有一些問題可以幫助你找到一條道路,去尋找你人生的目標。

1. Am I doing what I love?

問題一:我是否在從事自己喜歡的職業?


Asking this question should pertain to your life as a whole. Do I love my family, friends, and work? Am I doing things outside of my job that I love like drawing, writing, or any creative art? If you are not doing what you love, look at why you haven’t been doing them and start incorporating them in your life.

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回答這一問題需要你把你的生活當做一個整體來思考。我愛我的家庭、喜歡我的朋友、我的工作嗎?我是否從事工作以外的的事,而這些事有是我所喜歡的,像畫畫、寫作、或是任何創作藝術?如果你不是在做你喜歡做的事,找尋原因,爲什麼你沒有做,然後把它們融入你的生活。

2. Am I surrounded by people that I care about?

問題二:我的身邊是我在乎的人嗎?


It’s important when looking for purpose in your life, you look at the people around you. Your friends, family, co workers should all be people who support you in your quest to find real purpose. Not having those types of people around you could harm your progress in finding meaning. When I pursued writing, my friends and family played an important role in encouraging me to do it. Even if I didn’t think an article I wrote was good, they still knew it made me happy to write and that type of positive reinforcement does wonders.

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這一問題在你尋找人生目標時是很重要的,看看你身邊的人。你的朋友、家人、同事都應該支持你尋找人生真正目標。你的身邊不要存在那些在你尋找生命意義的過程中有害的朋友。在我過程中,我的家人以及朋友的鼓勵我發揮了重要的作用。即使在我不覺得我寫的文章不錯的時候,他們依然知道習作會讓我開心,而這種積極的力量創造了奇蹟。

3. Am I Happy With Where I Am?

問題三:我喜歡自己的處境麼?


Look at every aspect of your life. Ask if you are happy with what you have done. Are you going in the direction you want for your life. If not, what can you do to get there? It is hard not to compare our lives to our friends to measure success but try hard not to get caught up in what others have. The true measurement of happiness is are we doing what we want and happy with the journey that lies ahead.

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看看你生活的各個面。問自己對自己以做到的成績是否滿意,是否在自己想要的人生方向上,如果不是,有什麼可以做去達到它?不拿我們的生活去和朋友們的生活比較,從而衡量是否成功是很困難的,但是不要被別人所擁什麼影響。真正衡量是否幸福的方法,是看我們是否在從事想做的事,是否對人生路途的方向滿意。

4. Is there more I can do?

問題四:這裏還有什麼是我能做的?


You already know there is always more you can do. The real question lies in what can you do more of. Think of what you would want to contribute to society and what impact you want to have. There are tons of issues in our society that need people looking to make an impact. Think of what are some social issues that trigger you emotionally. Start there and find ways to get involved with organizations who focus on those social issues.

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你是知道的,總是還有一些事是你可以做的。真正的問題在於你能做多少。想想什麼是你想貢獻給社會,造成什麼影響。在我們的社會裏,有大量的事情需要人們關注,產生影響。想想引發你情感的那些社會問題。從此處着手,尋找途徑去加入關注那些社會問題的組織。

5. Do I feel satisfied?

問題五:我感到滿足嗎?


Most of us attribute satisfaction with work or material possessions. If we don’t like our job, we are not satisfied. If we don’t have the things like a big house, nice cars, or wealth of money we are quick to call ourselves failures. What we need to do is take a real look at what we define as success for our own lives rather than what others call it.

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我們中大多數人把滿足和工作或是物質財富聯繫在一起。如果我們不喜歡我們的工作,我們就會不滿意。如果我們不擁有大房子、好車或是大量錢財,我們就會直接認爲自己是個失敗者。我們真正需要做的是,仔細看看我們是如何定義自己活的成功的,而不是別人定義的。

6. How do I want to be remembered?

問題六:我希望如何被銘記?


This is something I think about often when it comes to looking at my life. I often ask when my time has come, what will people remember of me? It may seem a little extreme but it puts things into perspective.

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當我回顧我的人生時,這個問題就會出現在我的腦海裏。我經常在我垂垂老矣時問自己,人們會如何銘記我?這看起來似乎有一些極端,但是這就是事實。

7. What makes me happy?

問題七:是什麼使我開心?


If you don’ t know what makes you happy, that’s ok. A good way to start is asking yourself what makes you miserable. We know what we don’t like doing so identifying these things now is a great start to working towards the things that do make you happy.

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如果你不知道什麼使你開心?這也不要緊。有一個好的開始方式,可以問問你自己,什麼使你痛苦?我們知道自己不喜歡什麼,所以現在明確這些事物是一個良好的開始,去確定什麼事物使你開心。

8. How do I look at today?

問題八:我覺得今天怎麼樣?


When you wake up in the morning, how do you approach the day? Your view on today affects your outlook on life. If you think negatively first thing in the morning, you will have no sense of optimism. Changing your perception will help guide you in finding purpose in your life. Ask what do I want to do today and put it into action.

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當你早上醒來的時候,你怎麼做的?你如何開待今天對你的人生觀是有影響的。如果你在早上首先想的是消極的事,你就不是一個樂觀的人。改變你的觀念會指引你找尋人生目標。問自己今天我想做什麼,然後將它付足於行動。

9. Can I have an impact?

問題九:我會有影響嗎?


You can always have an impact if you choose to do so. But what you choose to do is a different story. You don’t have to be a visionary who creates a game changing product or a spiritual guru. Sometimes, the real measure of impact is the effect you have on a single person’s life.

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你總是可以有影響,只要你選擇去做。但你選擇去做什麼就是另一件事了。你不必做一個有有遠見卓識的人,發明一種改變生產的遊戲。你不必做一個精神領袖。有時候,真正衡量是否有影響,在於你對一個人生命的影響。

10. What am I waiting for?

問題十:我在等什麼?


Well, what are you waiting for?

對啊,你在等什麼?

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